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In high school, it was mandatory to get involved in PE. We ran, we swam, we played all sports, we had all types of gymnastics. We did all of this from grade school to 12th grade. (Kennedy era) There were regular dances that the kids were encouraged to attend (dancing is good :)) In grade school we had REAL cafeterias with FRESHLY cooked real food but not sushi. It was mashed spuds w/gravy, macaroni, a meat protein, fresh fruit, a salad etc. No snack food like chips. In Junior Hi and Sr High we still had the cafeterias but some snack bars were added. There were so many sports programs that calories were burned off.
Regular public school had many more programs than they do today. It was much more of a blast than what I see the kids dealing with now. It's sad. There weren't many FAT kids in school those days but when one did appear, LIKE NOW, it was a huge circus of tauting and ridicule and ASSUMTION.
The very fact that there is ANOTHER THREAD on OBESITY/FAT with a graphic in one of the posts of a PIG is EXACTLY my point about fat bashing and the paranoid, predjudiced approach to the subject. WHY EVEN BRING IT UP? What the hell difference does it make to YOU (in the collective sense) whether someone is fat or not? It's not your life undergoing some trauma.
Leave people alone. Treat all the people with respect. Understand something is happening in their lives to cause them to gain weight and not necessarily OVEREATING. Show some sympathy. Show some kindness. Show some CLASS and let them work out their troubles the best way they can.
Do you even realize that the constant drip drip drip on the subject of FAT over boards, in newspapers, magazines, and on the news causes overweight people to feel less like going outside?????????? It causes MORE ANXIETY. By HARPING on this subject day after day after day, a person begins to feel shunned and depressed and, yes, ANGRY.
Do you realize the pressure to be thin killed Schiavo? She was bulimic. I watched a program called "Intervention" where a woman who had been sexually assaulted as a child, neglected, then beaten by a husband, then turned to substance abuse------>food as her "lover/safe place" She married again but could not find happiness. She would be okay around the family until they left then she'd eat uncontrollably until she felt guilty then she'd go take water pills and laxatives to purge that way. Then she'd get depressed and weird towards her family. then she'd start the damn thing over again. Finally they intervened, sent her to a clinic where she was able to stop the madness. She is over weight now, but she is HAPPY.
My sister and her husband were overweight. He loved to eat. He kept her in the kitchen cooking. They had a strained marriage. She drank too much because of it. He was over 400lbs. Two years ago he came down with some sort of Leukemia from having worked around transformers (PCBS). Ironically, his enormous body fat kept him alive a long time. He lost his appetite for awhile so his body used up his stores of body fat for nourishment. We lost him in the end, but guess what? My sister LOST WEIGHT. The strain of her relationship with my beloved bro n law caused her to be set free I guess. No more stress for her. The pounds just dropped off and she looks GREAT. No diets, no exercise except a night on the town dancing once in awhile. :evilgrin:
Another show I watched was on extreme surgery. (how many can afford this kind of surgery???) A woman had dieted and exercised as far as she could go then elected to use liposuction for the rest. Then she had all this flabby skin hanging down. She went in and had all that cut away *shudder* so she could look thin and "beautiful" and "sexy" again. (she should have had her hair done) She went from a size 4x to a size 9.
Another story was about a woman who was over 300+ pounds, went on some sort of diet with exercise and lost 150 lbs! She was ecstatic but she was still way overweight. If she goes into the public, some asshole will say look at that pig. This is just unacceptable.
At about the age of 30 your metabolism starts to slow down. It happens again at about 40-45. For women it almost stops at menopause. So, if you are slim now........watch it carefully because if you don't and your reach these jump points you will find yourself doing the very same things, eating the very same way and GAINING WEIGHT. Don't forget genentics as well. Some people eat like truck drivers and rarely gain a pound. Other's eat normally and everything goes to fat.
Once a person puts on the BIG pounds, it is harder to take it off than kicking heroin!! People will yo-yo diet..that only freaks the body out and often causes the body to store MORE fat. The exercising one must do at this point is far beyond what a thin person would have to do. It becomes a depressing and almost impossible feat.
You've seen the stories where a slender family has an obese child. Families where they are going out of their minds trying to keep the child from overeating and looking for help. There is praderwillie syndrome<sp? where the appetite center in the brain will not shut off EVER. There are depressions (many from negative relationships) that set in for men and women where food is their drug of choice to cover the pain-->Chocolate works on your dopamine (and is recommended for women during menstruation) There are eating disorders where people CANNOT EVEN PUT FOOD INTO THEIR MOUTH--->anorexia for example. They are too THIN.... :crazy:
I have led a very hard life. I used to be quite attractive. I stopped smoking in 1989; I put on 50lbs. just like that! I went to weight watchers and did marathon walking and lost 55 lbs quickly. Then I gained 80lbs. Then I dieted again. Then I gained 100 lbs. etc etc etc.
Now I have a partial disability caused by OA in both of my hips, my spine, my feet. I have a serious depression and other maladies. I have my weight watchers coupons in hand but I'll never be "the weight you all think I should be" again. I was sitting outside the hospital 7 weeks ago getting some fresh air while my husband was being treated inside. A male nurse came past me after dropping off a departing elderly couple to their car. He looked me up and down, gave a smirk, rolled his eyes, make a little tsk tsk noise and stuck his nose into the air as he egostitically strolled back into the hospital. I wished I had tripped him with my cane.
People like that don't know a goddamned thing about me. They don't know what is going on in my life; whether I happen to be dieting at the time or what. Physically disabled people tend to gain weight BECAUSE THEY ARE SITTING most of the time and not able to burn off many calories. This is why I get enraged about threads like these. They just keep this mindset GOING AND GOING. "People eat too much, they eat the wrong stuff, they are pigs, they don't exercise 'like they should"
Hells bells, look at Oprah..up,down,up,down, walking, running, books, talking yadda yadda..look at the wealthy fatsos up there eating goose liver pate and caviar and drinking the best alcoholic beverages in the world. Anyone attack Orson Wells since his demise?
TREAT PEOPLE WITH RESPECT no matter their size or gender or ethnicity. YOU don't know what they are going through physically, mentally, financially, personally or in any other way. YOU don't know where they've been OR where they are going. Neither do the doctors or the Journalists. These last two only deal in statistics, they don't LIVE IN OUR HOMES with us.
Constantly harping on the Great Obesity Epidemic of 2005 doesn't address the underlying issues and it CERTAINLY DOESN'T HELP those who need it the most. It DOES help the Insurance and diet industries. UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE NOW!
PS: To the issues of people in Japan. There may not be many fat Japanese--though I've seen stats that show there is a rise there, but we do know that the urgency to "conform" has caused a tremendous crisis in SUICIDE..................! I'd rather be fat.
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