People seem to think that a tattered, torn and dirty flag is better than no flag at all. But the U.S. Flag Code says that American flags in disrepair should be "destroyed, preferably by burning."
So why do I see tattered and torn flags everywhere I look?
One family a street over, in a fit of nationalistic frenzy right after the war started, hung out a full-sized flag and put smaller flags all over the place. They've been there ever since. The larger flag is now faded and tangled up in the basketball net since they put it up right under it. The smaller flags they had hanging on their front windows and front door are torn to shreds. The hand-painted SUPPORT OUR TROOPS! wooden sign is faded and weather-beaten and laying in the mud. The kids love to use it as a BIKE RAMP now. No one has picked it up or disposed of it.
A car wash on the main street near me has the worst flags. They look very similar to the picture at the top of this post and there are six of them, full-sized, just out there faded, tattered and sloppy every single day and night.
And another thing, if you leave the flag out at night, it's supposed to be lit up. Otherwise, take it down at night.
But there's a Mobil station on I-35 E just about fifteen minutes south of Dallas with the WORST flags I have ever seen. They are on large poles all over the roof of the building and are literally almost unrecognizable now, they are so faded and torn. They look sort of pinkish and light green now. No longer stripes, but strips!
And finally, I found this little essay. I couldn't agree more:
(from
http://www.rossde.com/editorials/edtl_patriot.html)
I have a special problem with those who fly flags from their automobiles. In general, flags are displayed on automobiles contrary to the rules of flag etiquette codified in law (4 USC Chapter 1): On an automobile, "The flag should not be draped over the hood, top, sides, or back of a vehicle … the staff shall be fixed firmly to the chassis or clamped to the right fender." Definitely, the United States flag must not be fastened to a radio antenna. It belongs in the right-front of a car, not attached to the left-rear window.
On a car moving along a freeway at 50-75 miles per hour, a flag is subjected to winds of gale or hurricane force. Soon, the flag becomes frayed and tattered. "The flag should never be fastened, displayed, used, or stored in such a manner as to permit it to be easily torn, soiled, or damaged in any way."
Nevertheless, there are many flags on cars that are no longer fit to be displayed. "The flag, when it is in such condition that it is no longer a fitting emblem for display, should be destroyed in a dignified way … " (not by dropping it into a trash bin or by allowing it to tear loose from the car and blow away, perhaps to land on the highway and be driven over by another automobile).
Besides failing to abide by "flag etiquette", too many flag wavers also ignore "road etiquette". They tail-gate, weave in and out without signaling, and drive through red signals. Flying a flag (or sometime two flags) while driving that way does not make them patriots. Instead, they are merely rude slobs. Or are they trying to show that real Americans are road bullies? They have no appreciation for the image they present while displaying the symbol of our nation, tying their behavior to a definition of America. This, too, is disrespectful of our flag.
Overall, too many "patriots" who fly the flag from their automobiles show as much disrespect for the flag as those who would burn the flag to protest our government's actions. I suspect that they are motivated primarily by a need to show off. They approach patriotism the same way that hypocrites approach religion, making a big show about going to church but, in their daily lives, hating their neighbors and refusing to give to charity.
No, I do not own a flag. I don't need a flag to be a patriot.