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My tenure working in downtown Dallas was a wonderful eye-opening experience for me, and definitely played a part in my decision to become a Democrat when I finally began voting. I made some wonderful friends there. Incredibly warm, special people.
You have to understand my history to understand how monumental this was. I was raised in a racist household, using the N word because I was taught to. My mom called Aretha Franklin and Natalie Cole "screamin n****r music." She sent me to Catholic school for the first time in 1976 so I would not be bussed, because she didn't want me going to school with "a bunch of n*****s."
It wasn't until I got to college and away from this poisonous way of thinking that I began develop my own way of thinking and reject that crap. I thank God every day for allowing me to attend college away from home. It saved my life. Meeting all my diverse friends in college made me a liberal.
I was a minority downtown, and it was interesting to see all the diversity, and learn how to function in that environment on an everyday basis. I picked up silly slang, my friends teased me, and I teased them back.
One of my good black friends asked me if I could help her one weekend. Her aunt had died, and she wanted to know if I could help her to clean out the little house in east Fort Worth, and then move the stuff in my truck to her parents' place.
There was a crack house next door. I wouldn't have even known it, naive as I was, but she told me about it. Cars came and went the entire time we were there.
It was a little intimidating, but I did OK. I'm one of those people who tries never to meet a stranger, and I hope that whoever I meet feels the same way.
I've been more uncomfortable and needed more attitude adjustment in the snotty parts of Plano than I did in East Fort Worth.
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