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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 10:45 AM
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Would you vote for a presidential candidate who supports same-sex marriage
Edited on Fri Jan-23-04 10:46 AM by Cannikin
Its almost 50/50 on this poll. I know some of you have your opinions about polls, but its about showing these anti-gay sites that we aint going out without a fight. So please vote.

http://www.traditionalvalues.org/modules.php?name=Surveys&pollID=55

Yes 49.67% (7100)
No 50.33% (7194)


Total Votes: 14294
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sallyseven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 10:56 AM
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1. now it is 50.01 to 49.99
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 10:57 AM
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2. It makes me wonder
which demographic group is so anti gay civil rights...as the country goes in this 50/50 direction..
Makes me think its my mother's generation (over 60) who will be gone soon and hopefully we will see some generational changes occur..
Im 52 and I hope changes happen soon. On the other hand, I march with many people in their 70s and 80s who are marvelous peace activists and gay rights advocates..
soooo which demographic group is so vehemently anti gay rights? one wonders...or is it some combination of demographic groups?
oh, I voted =)
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 10:58 AM
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4. We can only hope the next generation is a little wiser.
Yes 50.05% (7218)
No 49.95% (7205)


Total Votes: 14423
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Goldom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 10:57 AM
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3. all these racist sites
must be pretty freaked out that they can't even win their OWN biased polls ^_^
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kcwayne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 11:04 AM
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5. Republicans don't even support a some-sex marriage
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 11:11 AM
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6. Lol..ok...I spewed coffee on that one..
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dusty64 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 11:12 AM
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7. Looks like
an even split on a rightwing website. No too bad.
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 11:19 AM
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8. Email the link to all the mo's you knows.
Yes 50.88% (7490)
No 49.12% (7231)


Total Votes: 14721
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 11:20 AM
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9. No one can ever tell me how forbidding same sex marriage
strengthens heterosexual marriage? If Massachusetts or any other state recognizes same sex marriage or civil unions, does that make it more likely that my wife is going to leave me and marry a woman - or that I will leave her and marry a man? Wouldn't one of us leave anyway if we were inclined that way? Just doesn't make sense to me. If anything, I would think that recognizing same sex marriage might encourage folks who were so inclined to establish committed relationships with someone that met their physical needs rather than try to repress their feelings in order to engage in a straight marriage that is doomed to fail. So we would have fewer "false" marriages and more "true" marriages (gay and straight). Am I missing something? Why don't we hear this argument more?
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 02:06 PM
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11. Gay marriage STRENGTHENS marriage
The more people who get married, to me, strenghtens marriage. Or at least to me.

Another argument I've heard is that marriage is solely for procreation, thus reserving it for heterosexuals.

A red herring, I say. What about the straight married couples who either don't want to have kids or can't? Are their marriages automatically invalid?

Terry
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duhneece Donating Member (967 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 04:25 PM
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19. Or the 50 and older crowd
If our spouse dies and we become widows, I guess none of us should marry because we can't procreate!
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John BigBootay Donating Member (574 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 01:59 PM
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10. Bump for more votes
I don't see how marriage or civil-union between same sex couples interferes with anyone else's right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

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rmdude Donating Member (6 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 02:55 PM
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12. I think it may be jealousy
Maybe I'm off base but I know that me and my partner are MUCH happier than a lot of traditionally married couples. We genuinely enjoy each other, are very much in love after all this time and it shows to anyone who spends any time with.

I've gotten the impression at times that it royally p*sses some of my straight married co-workers and friends off that we are happy together. I think it goes against the stereotype that has been thrust on the general public of the bed-hopping gay guys and that makes them very uncomfortable for some reason.

Think about it - one of the main reasons that us gay guys have been demonized is the stereotype of loose and easy promiscuous sex. Me and my love are totally committed and anyone who sees us (and the many other couples just like us) cannot use the promiscuity argument against homosexuality. And for the government to acknowledge civil unions and gay marriage, this would take yet another weapon out of the haters arsenals.

Just my .02
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John BigBootay Donating Member (574 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 04:40 PM
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21. You are probably right--
It may take a lot of time and effort to get the general public behind the idea of gay marriage. I have heard some conservative pundits claim that the idea is geared toward trying to secure benefits above and beyond what a straight married couple might be entitled to. I don't know if there is anything to this claim or not-- but I will say this: There better not be.

Anyone who tries to play the system for personal advantage is hurting the overall cause.
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 06:24 PM
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25. Hi rmdude!!
Welcome to DU!! :toast:
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 02:56 PM
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13. Yes
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 02:58 PM
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14. It seems to me that this poll is being freeped
Yes 45.47% (12875)
No 54.53% (15441)

Total Votes: 28316
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 03:09 PM
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15. vote on all the "other polls" there too
when results screen appears ...click on "other polls"....they are all still open polls and you can vote on them too...


Past Surveys

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Edge Donating Member (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 03:10 PM
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16. Of course I would vote
for a candidate who supports same-sex marriage.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 03:29 PM
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17. I just voted yes, but now I feel sorta disgusted
-- (although not quite as disgusted and nauseous as I would seeing Ann Coulter nude)-- that I dignified that smug poll with a response.

That Traditional Value Coalition is one of the most hateful organizations in the country, but I realize I'm preaching to the choir!
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kayell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 03:36 PM
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18. Eeewwww
I voted, although I think these online polls are basically ridiculous. Then I made the mistake of poking around that site a bit. Now I feel dirty. I need a shower. Maybe a dozen. In very hot water.
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ButterflyBlood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 04:32 PM
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20. this is a very right wing site
so 50/50 is actually a good sign.
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LEW Donating Member (809 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 04:46 PM
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22. just voted
now

Yes 51%
NO 49%

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theHandpuppet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 05:11 PM
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23. Thanks for the heads up...
Just voted the rainbow ticket! ;-)

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tucson Donating Member (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 05:49 PM
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24. Glad to help, Cannikin.

Here are the current results at 3:48 Tucson time.

Yes 53.86% (18126)
No 46.14% (15530)
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 06:25 PM
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26. Hi tucson!!
Welcome to DU!! :toast:
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tucson Donating Member (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 08:00 PM
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28. Thanks newyawker99 for the welcome.

Actually, I've been here a very long time. I just post very infrequently, although I'm very fond of this site. I spend most of my time reading latest breaking news items and others' comments.

My first goal is to help my gay and lesbian community here at DU, when I can, with anything that I can add to a discussion. Nothing, absolutely nothing, makes me prouder of this site than my fellow brothers and sisters. Although I've been offended by a LOT of comments from ignorant, straight DUers, I keep returning, hoping for understanding and bridges.

One thing that I have learned here is that, just as in politics, you have to keep repeating the same message, over and over and over and over again. For example, I keep seeing asinine statements that gay men have a choice, that, after I posted several statements to the contrary from the two leading mental health organizations, the American Psychological and Psychiatric Associations.

Anyway, thanks again for your warm welcome. Stay well.

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Rockholm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 06:39 PM
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27. Just Voted...Yes nearing 60%
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RapidCreek Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 08:09 PM
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29. Yes I am a patriotic american and believe in our Constitution.
RC
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Serenity-NOW Donating Member (301 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 08:15 PM
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30. Can't wait till they claim foul
and call me a homosexual activist or whatever. Who on Earth are these so-called people thinking that anybody with a brain gives a rat's ass what they think. I actually know some folks like this hardcore repubs and devout Nazarene church members. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Until they try to butt into other's lives that is.
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-23-04 08:39 PM
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31. Lots of progress today!
Would you vote for a presidential candidate who supports same-sex marriage or civil unions?

Yes 56.70% (20402)
No 43.30% (15579)


Total Votes: 35981





Wow! We did all this in a day? Way to go DU!:toast:
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