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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:14 AM Original message |
The case against having kids |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:23 AM Response to Original message |
1. I have known all my life that I didn't want kids. |
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John1956PA (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:40 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I share your instincts against procreating, as well as your logic for not doing so. |
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Stargazer09 (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 11:40 PM Response to Reply #3 |
26. I think it's based on a lot of factors |
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John1956PA (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 06:00 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. My random thought was that maybe brain "wiring" gives some people a greater instinct to procreate. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:27 AM Response to Original message |
2. One word: Idiocracy. n/t |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #2 |
33. One of the more thought-provoking movies around, masquerading as a piece of fluff. nt |
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shellgame26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 10:24 AM Response to Reply #2 |
34. I just saw that |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 12:35 PM Response to Reply #34 |
54. Yep. Me too. Feels like we're almost there. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 12:28 AM Response to Reply #2 |
40. I didn't expect to like the movie... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:47 AM Response to Original message |
4. And it's funny how the breeders are the ones who accuse the childless of being "selfish" |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:49 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. I guess you would call me a 'breeder' |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:54 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. No, I only call people breeders if they force their choice on others. |
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Stargazer09 (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 11:51 PM Response to Reply #9 |
27. I guess I'm a 'breeder,' too |
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LARED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 05:48 AM Response to Reply #4 |
11. "breeders" is an offensive term - nt |
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Bryan Sacks (732 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 12:07 AM Response to Reply #11 |
28. So is "truther", but you don't mind branding people with it n/t |
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LARED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 06:01 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Truther is an offensive term? |
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Bryan Sacks (732 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 09:04 AM Response to Reply #31 |
49. Not funny, just typical of you. Nothing to add but derision. |
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LARED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 06:26 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. And how typical of you, getting your skirt in a knot over nothing nt |
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Bryan Sacks (732 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 07:02 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Stereotyping AND Sexist. You're on a roll. At least you spelled everything right n/t |
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LARED (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. And just to prove I''m right you do it again. - nt |
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Larkspur (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #11 |
38. "breeder" is a state of mind |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 06:43 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. anyone that uses the insult "breeders" is talking about my Mom |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:59 AM Response to Original message |
5. We have had some nasty fights at DU over this issue |
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ClayZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:04 AM Response to Original message |
6. When my grandson got his drivers license, |
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murielm99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:15 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Thanks for posting this. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 06:40 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. oh my, when I read "my twenty-something children," my pre-caffeinated brain thought |
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murielm99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #12 |
24. Good grief! |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:38 AM Response to Original message |
8. the social pressure to reproduce causes a lot of heartache |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
14. Married 20 years, no kids or plans to have them |
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Paladin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
15. I Have The Greatest Respect For Those Opting For No Children. |
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burning rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
16. The case against having kids.... |
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windoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
17. There are 2 ways people manifest creativity |
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acsmith (131 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 04:11 AM Response to Reply #17 |
43. what a load of... |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
18. One should be careful telling others what to do, but |
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Franzia (297 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 02:21 PM Original message |
I'd rather regret that which I didn't do instead of that which I did. |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
19. I have kids, but I think anyone who is not SURE they want to ... |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Get children, is my advice |
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Franzia (297 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 06:02 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. We childfree do know what's good for us. |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 11:15 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I said it was my "instinct, right or wrong", so I underscored |
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abq e streeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
20. Not having ever settled down and having a family is my single greatest regret |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-15-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I can easily understand your regret and |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
29. Kids or no kids. Neither is right or wrong. |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
32. I'm "VeHEMenT" on the subject. |
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shellgame26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 10:35 AM Response to Reply #32 |
36. WTF!! |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 11:32 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Nothing is so serious you can't have a little fun with it! |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 03:45 AM Response to Reply #37 |
42. The problem is that it makes you look anti-human |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 07:59 AM Response to Reply #42 |
46. I'm not making policy or trying to persuade people to change their behaviour. |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 09:32 AM Response to Reply #46 |
51. That's an interesting chart! |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Here is the data source, and another interesting chart |
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acsmith (131 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 04:14 AM Response to Reply #32 |
44. darwinism at its truely greatest. |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
35. But doesn't the risk need to be spread? |
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Larkspur (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-16-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. The planet has over 6 billion people and growing |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 08:27 AM Response to Reply #39 |
47. And how do we humanely find a way to do that? |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 08:51 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. See post #46 for my thoughts on that. /nt |
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Imperfect World (56 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #39 |
60. That was because they behaved irresponsibly, not because they had too many people. |
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Larkspur (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 11:39 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. the disaster on Easter Island was directly link to the rise in population |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 03:41 AM Response to Original message |
41. Parents and non-parents should stop judging each other |
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acsmith (131 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 07:10 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. I thought pledges didn't work... |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 09:24 AM Response to Reply #45 |
50. It's a way of raising the issue |
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shellgame26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. I smell a pizza in your future |
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ihavenobias (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 06:39 PM Response to Reply #41 |
56. I appreciate your comments on this thread. n/t |
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road2000 (995 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
53. This thread title is truly moronic. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-17-09 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
58. Instead of needing lots of children, we need high-quality children. |
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