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Edited on Mon Jun-23-08 12:37 PM by SimpleTrend
We rented (edited to add "a single place") for 15 years and rent increased from about $600 a month to $1300 a month. It seemed that every time we got a pay raise, the rent was increased. Once talking to the landlord, he claimed other landlords watched military pay raise statistics and when they got a pay raise, these landlords raised their rents.
So we moved a long way away from that city to buy a house when the rent hit that unaffordable for us $1300 a month number. We'll be paying the mortgage on this place until we're in our 70s. We never had quite enough income to buy when we were younger.
The very odd thing is that we fixed that landlord's house up over the years, so much so that we miss the place now. Besides the neighbors, we loved the yard and the organic rose garden we planted, which, while small, was much like a park. Getting old and buying a fixer upper is no cakewalk. We apparently don't have the energy and stamina and physique to do it again, and there isn't enough money to hire others to do it. So who the hell cares if we own, we can't even go into our back yard to relax, and I moved so far away from my network of friends who'd toss me bones for 'self-employment' work, that there's much less income now.
My business philosophy was apparently misguided, I believed in cultivating long term relationships of trust. But my long term strategy was undermined by rising property values, and now I'm around a bunch of people who don't know me, and I don't know many of them, and that's just the way it is. Instead, it appears I'd have been better off going for the fast buck, playing fast and loose with truth, and not giving a damn if the customer wasn't happy. Lying cheating and stealing, and not getting caught, seems the way the big boys do it.
I wish I was still "tied down" with that local network of friends who trusted me and I them. So I take issue with Krugman's assertion that "Owning a home also ties workers down", as if mobility were such a great thing. Perhaps mobility is great if you're PhD, but for some others, staying where people know you and help support you is everything.
If you can't buy a house when you're young and vigorous, buying a home ain't such a great thing, though it may help to fix your monthly costs for shelter. It may not ever "feel" like your home, and you may be too old and decrepit to make it so.
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