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Edited on Tue Aug-08-06 11:56 AM by mntleo2
When more of us see the light about the war on the poor and middle class and recognize that, while it began with the poor, these laws that were enacted 10 years ago are now moving to the middle class, then we will begin the arduous task of rebuilding that safety net. I am only sad that, when we poor were trying to tell the middle class this was going to be a result, we were not heard. I do think this was because at that time, there was a huge outrage toward the poor and homeless when in reality we are/were the canary in the mine. There is a myriad of problems with poverty that is tangled, ugly and very difficult to solve. No simple answers. Except perhaps one. Money. I am going to say something perhaps shocking: I do not think the poor have any different problems than the upper classes, they are just held more accountable for them.
I was struck once by a comment from one of my kids (who, as usual teach me far more wisdom than any college I have attended). We lived by the grace of Section 8 in an upper middle class neighborhood. I am white, but my kids are hispanic and we were by far both a minority in race as well as income. One time, in the late summer heat around 11 at night, the police brought my son home and told me they had also brought his friend home (a black girl). He had gotten a complaint that my son and his friend along some other neighborhood kids (all white and upper income) were standing under a street light doing what 13 and 14 year olds do, chasing each other, laughing and talking loud. The policeman said there was no curfew violation, and no, nobody was doing anything illegal, but it just made the neighbors "nervous" that they were there.
After the policeman left, in embarrassment and anger I wailed at my son, "Why do YOU always have to get into so much trouble, your other friends never seem to have these problems!" He looked at me sadly and said, "They DO have the same problems as me, Mom. But their parents are rich and nobody knows ..."
His point here is, that drug abuse, alcoholism, and other problems are experienced just as much by the upper classes but they are not as visible. Poverty has its problems right out there in the open where everyone can see them, not hidden in some suburban McMansion. But people turn the other way and refuse to see what is right before their eyes. The law is based on paying fines and if they are not paid, then you "do time." For instance, if an upper income kid gets in trouble Daddy can pay the fine and the kid is immediately out of the System. A poor parent cannot do that, so the kids stay in the System, which further corrupts and angers them. The cycle of crime, poverty, and human suffering continues. My point is that the System in its present state does not work and the poor are the canaries that will tell you that. Welfare DEFormed is another bit of proof that punishing one segment of the population only creates more problems and they do not stop with the poor. If we did the careful work of actually supporting one another rather than destroying each other, perhaps we would have less problems across the board.
So yeah, we poor are the scapegoats in so many ways, and it could be a way of helping ALL of us if we just realized we are all a paycheck away from the street. But many prefer to deny that reality sometimes ~ and therfore vote against their own best interests. I am not trying to make we poor as victims here, because we also make our choices, which we should own. I am just saying the "owning" those problems helps when you have support, not demonization and alienation. As the commenter below this comment said, this discussion should not have dropped to the bottom of the list, but unfortunately poverty is not a hot-button issue ~ until it hits you.
Cat In Seattle
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