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Kadie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:17 PM Original message |
Boy sent back to biological mother after three years with adopted family |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
1. Poor parents too |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
2. There was a case like this 15-20 years ago. Huge MSM coverage |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 12:29 AM Response to Reply #2 |
44. Yes Baby RIchard in Illinois in the early 90s |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 12:05 PM Response to Reply #44 |
62. Re; Baby Richard |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:27 PM Response to Reply #62 |
99. I remember that case |
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Bo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 10:41 AM Response to Reply #62 |
165. Simply heartbreaking |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:40 AM Response to Reply #62 |
170. It's The Reason My Wife & I Abandoned Adoption |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:58 AM Response to Reply #170 |
173. Would you consider foreign adoption? |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 12:08 PM Response to Reply #173 |
176. We're Past That Point Age Wise, Now |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 03:48 PM Response to Reply #62 |
180. "Baby Richard": now an A student; parents are together... |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. It should have come first at the time of the adoption! |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:05 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I know a few open adoptions and they don't have "visitation" rights |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 02:57 PM Response to Reply #8 |
138. It is highly unusual - and our experience could be the ONLY one - but |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 06:20 PM Response to Reply #3 |
29. Depends on the birth parents. |
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Dulcinea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:53 AM Response to Reply #29 |
131. Agreed. |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 10:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
119. We have an open adoption in our family |
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Born Free (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:45 AM Response to Reply #119 |
130. "We have an open adoption in our family" |
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Massachusetts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. There Are Way To many People Who Suck! |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
5. Where were the lawyers? How was this allowed to happen? |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:40 PM Response to Reply #5 |
14. Here's Why |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:25 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. But I guess my question is still this: |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 12:34 AM Response to Reply #15 |
45. Most states allow adoption if the birth father is unknown or |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:50 AM Response to Reply #45 |
56. Okay, I understand better now. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. This happens too frequently. |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
7. This sucks!! |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 04:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
24. I don't see where in the article that the father abused her |
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RedRogue22 (8 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:44 PM Response to Reply #7 |
144. Rules Stink!! (at least in this case) |
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Megahurtz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 07:05 PM Response to Reply #7 |
184. Sometimes the twisted courts will |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
9. I read the story again -- NOW I understand |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 07:23 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. The guy beat her up? |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:04 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. She sustained injuries |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 01:48 AM Response to Reply #36 |
49. ergo |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:19 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. it was in their residence |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:59 PM Response to Reply #58 |
88. Well, that solves that crime, then |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:15 PM Response to Reply #88 |
96. Well, Sherlock |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 02:30 AM Response to Reply #96 |
106. Hmm |
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KinkyDem (748 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 12:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
174. Fifteen years and 8 days ago my daughter was given up ... |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 06:07 PM Response to Reply #9 |
153. Legal translation -- |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
10. put the blame on florida social services!!!! |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:22 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Absolutely!!! |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:26 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. From the sounds of things, this woman was in fear of a violent ex |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:29 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. That's why the judge is to blame also |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:34 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Yes, you are right |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:46 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. exactly |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 08:21 PM Response to Reply #18 |
114. Why Fishy? |
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booksenkatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
11. CHILDREN ARE NOT OBJECTS |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
20. Well said! |
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classof56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 03:25 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Welcome to DU, Mamalone. |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:21 AM Response to Reply #22 |
166. As far as my children being fortunate.. |
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booksenkatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 04:46 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. Welcome, mamalone! |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:34 AM Response to Reply #26 |
167. Thanks so much for the warm welcome! |
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Bo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 10:01 AM Response to Reply #11 |
163. I fully agree with you..... |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:38 AM Response to Reply #163 |
169. Sadly, |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
19. Good grief, they didn't see a pattern? |
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Mabeline (210 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
21. If the birth mother didn't have authority from the baby's father to |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 08:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
115. In Most States |
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hackwriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
23. And they want to advocate adoption instead of abortion? |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 04:40 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. although i understand |
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lostnfound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 10:09 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. Overruling one that lasted 3 years is insane, too. nt |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 10:11 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. yes |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
27. This treating children like possessions really infuriates me |
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StuckinKS (134 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 05:11 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Exactly! |
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happyslug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
30. These are always hard cases |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 07:09 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Sounds like she made the wrong decision for the right reasons |
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happyslug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:37 PM Response to Reply #31 |
38. In my experience, no, she thought the adoption was the best for the child. |
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Sunny_Sunshine (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 10:24 AM Response to Reply #30 |
164. Can the adoptive parents sue for back child support |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
33. Everybody's claiming he beat her |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:04 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. She sustained injuries during a confrontation with him |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 01:48 AM Response to Reply #35 |
50. Kindly point out the specific quote from the article |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
73. It's irrelevant |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 04:26 AM Response to Reply #73 |
109. I agree |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 12:45 PM Response to Reply #109 |
112. I would feel for him |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
34. if children aren't transferable property, then why does adoption exist? |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:06 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Well ... |
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StuckinKS (134 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 01:14 AM Response to Reply #34 |
47. Huh! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 01:56 AM Response to Reply #47 |
51. since we're posting our druthers... |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:22 AM Response to Reply #34 |
53. Since there seem to be so many people who know so much about this subject, |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:25 AM Response to Reply #53 |
59. You put it better than I ever could |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 02:13 PM Response to Reply #53 |
64. There was a case in Portland last year |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 02:56 PM Response to Reply #53 |
65. So? There are adoptees who disagree with you. |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:51 PM Response to Reply #65 |
72. What? My feelings don't carry any weight? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:50 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. feelings and principles |
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LosinIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:28 PM Response to Reply #77 |
143. That's quite the 'tude you're sporting there buddy! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:46 PM Response to Reply #143 |
149. Ah ... more personal remarks. What a shock. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:46 PM Response to Reply #65 |
76. Children aren't property |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:12 PM Response to Reply #76 |
82. if parents can give away kids, why can't nations give away their citizens? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:21 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. People aren't giving away their kids. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 07:40 PM Response to Reply #84 |
89. yes, they quite literally are giving their children away |
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StuckinKS (134 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 11:54 PM Response to Reply #89 |
102. Tsk! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #102 |
103. ...and how many argumenta ad hominem does that make now? |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 11:54 AM Response to Reply #103 |
110. I hope you are happy in your little world, sir |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 02:49 AM Response to Reply #110 |
122. kinda funny how... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 12:31 PM Response to Reply #89 |
111. Warm fuzzies? |
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RedRogue22 (8 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:50 PM Response to Reply #111 |
145. I'll question the "Biology Issue" |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 08:48 PM Response to Reply #82 |
117. So..... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:11 AM Response to Reply #117 |
123. your comments are vivid, but somewhat beside the point... |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 08:38 PM Response to Reply #65 |
116. Call It What You Want |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 02:45 AM Response to Reply #116 |
121. how is that any different from saying... |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 09:22 AM Response to Reply #121 |
159. Guardianship Vs Adoption |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 01:22 PM Response to Reply #53 |
113. Beatifully put! |
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American Tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:30 PM Response to Reply #34 |
69. What if someone gives birth who simply doesn't want children? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:40 PM Response to Reply #34 |
75. The child deserves loving parents who want him/her. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:31 PM Response to Reply #34 |
141. I agree, North... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 06:07 PM Response to Reply #141 |
152. you've noticed that, too? |
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Rowdyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
39. Is anyone surprised to learn that the judge, Waddell Wallace III, is a |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
40. The attorney screwed up |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-24-04 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
43. The litigation has been going on since 2001 |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 02:09 AM Response to Reply #43 |
52. typical suburban conquistador mentality |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:30 AM Response to Reply #52 |
60. Adoption is as old as time |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 03:12 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. So is slavery. So is cannibalism. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:54 PM Response to Reply #66 |
79. You would equate adoption with slavery? Cannibalism? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:19 PM Response to Reply #79 |
83. that a practice is ancient is not a justification for its continuance |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:31 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. They aren't the same things. |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:06 PM Response to Reply #79 |
139. ALL of this poster's screeds are all f--ked up! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:57 PM Response to Reply #139 |
151. I just don't feel like petting the sacred cow today, y'know? |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:14 PM Response to Reply #66 |
95. My dear sir/madam |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 12:26 AM Response to Reply #95 |
104. I hear a lot of emotion and conventional wisdom |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 08:51 PM Response to Reply #104 |
118. What I Don't Hear |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:22 AM Response to Reply #118 |
125. In the real world, on the street, with the kids... |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:18 PM Response to Reply #66 |
97. Oh, by the way |
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American Tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:25 PM Response to Reply #52 |
68. How are they 'grabbing' poor folks' kids? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:26 AM Response to Reply #68 |
126. When a kid is put into the foster system |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:01 AM Response to Reply #126 |
129. as witness the case of Logan Marr |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 09:28 AM Response to Reply #126 |
160. When a Parent's Rights |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:52 PM Response to Reply #43 |
78. If that is so, then the adoptive parents were wrong to do that. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
46. this is terrible |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 01:19 AM Response to Reply #46 |
48. the cat is your brother's PROPERTY under law |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:37 AM Response to Reply #48 |
54. it should be decided by the best interests of the child, period |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 09:55 AM Response to Reply #54 |
57. BINGO - you hit the nail on the head - children are property |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 03:41 PM Response to Reply #54 |
67. then why don't we ban no-fault divorce? |
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American Tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:33 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. That is not necessarily accurate. TRUST ME. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:57 PM Response to Reply #71 |
80. there are exceptions, but on the whole? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:57 PM Response to Reply #67 |
81. You no more have the interests of the child at heart |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:35 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. nope, never said that |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 06:42 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. That is exactly what you're arguing. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 08:03 PM Response to Reply #87 |
90. "parent" the noun versus "parent" as a verb |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 08:09 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. Forcing someone to parent who doesn't want to |
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phylny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 08:43 PM Response to Reply #90 |
93. I'm still flabbergasted by your assertion, but I'll ask a question anyway. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 09:29 PM Response to Reply #93 |
94. your question gets mine |
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quaoar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:35 PM Response to Reply #94 |
100. Your slavery analogy is bogus |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 12:38 AM Response to Reply #100 |
105. your objection is the result of not paying close attention |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 01:30 AM Response to Reply #105 |
120. You're the one who is treating children as property |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:49 AM Response to Reply #120 |
128. where does the "right" to transfer ones child to another person come from? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 04:58 PM Response to Reply #105 |
146. sounds likw you want to punish the woman who got pregnant |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:38 PM Response to Reply #146 |
148. how does recognizing a person's responsibilities... |
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lastliberalintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 06:50 PM Response to Reply #148 |
154. That does sound a great deal like the fundies |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 08:10 PM Response to Reply #154 |
156. very wise words LastLiberal... The arguements he is making are not |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 07:27 PM Response to Reply #148 |
155. you're assuming a lot- that tall will or can support and protect.... |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 09:36 AM Response to Reply #148 |
161. You Can't |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 03:00 PM Response to Reply #161 |
178. You have got to be joking, surely! |
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phylny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 04:17 AM Response to Reply #94 |
108. You didn't answer my question. n/t/ |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:18 AM Response to Reply #108 |
124. "n/t"? |
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phylny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 06:34 AM Response to Reply #124 |
134. Okay, you win :) |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 01:45 PM Response to Reply #124 |
136. Where does this obsession come from? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:24 PM Response to Reply #136 |
147. since when does expressing and defending a point of view... |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 09:49 PM Response to Reply #147 |
158. Thanks for the laugh. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:57 AM Response to Reply #124 |
172. Just Needed To Say. . . |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 01:38 PM Response to Reply #172 |
177. Ah... condescension! I hadn't expected that. How utterly crushing. |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:39 AM Response to Original message |
55. Adoption from the point of view of |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 12:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
63. I would support having open birth records at all times, except |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 05:08 PM Response to Reply #55 |
74. Only the families involved should have any say in this. |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:23 PM Response to Reply #74 |
98. The way my friend handled it |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:34 AM Response to Reply #55 |
127. Leftydad's records are sealed |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:59 AM Response to Reply #127 |
132. Leftydad has been dealt a bad hand |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 12:08 PM Response to Reply #132 |
175. That is so sad.. |
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gorbal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
61. Maybe there is still something they can do |
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quaoar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
70. This is why we adopted overseas |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
91. In our culture of life? The child never comes first. |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-25-04 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
101. Everyone loses in this situation |
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Caria (241 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-26-04 02:40 AM Response to Reply #101 |
107. Yes, the child should stay with his parents |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 06:24 AM Response to Reply #107 |
133. The reverse is true about "fundie" adoptions |
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Caria (241 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 11:16 AM Response to Reply #133 |
135. Oh yes, I've seen that too |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:36 PM Response to Reply #135 |
142. Us too |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
137. Solomon's choice. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
140. Adoption |
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Walt Starr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
150. This is why my wife and I WILL NOT adopt in this country |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:54 AM Response to Reply #150 |
171. Smart choice... |
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Walt Starr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-29-04 04:40 PM Response to Reply #171 |
187. We're planning to adopt a girl from China |
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bystnder (15 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-27-04 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
157. I know all the parties personally and can clear up a few things |
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Florida_Geek (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 09:51 AM Response to Reply #157 |
162. Sounds like you are a DU member posting under another ID |
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bystnder (15 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 06:22 PM Response to Reply #162 |
182. No- first post/first time visitor to this board, but I knew the deal and |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 03:17 PM Response to Reply #157 |
179. Thank you. |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 05:43 PM Response to Reply #157 |
181. Adoption is not without risks |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 06:48 PM Response to Reply #181 |
183. OK, I just have to speak up here... |
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sherilocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-29-04 07:03 AM Response to Reply #183 |
186. I am not opposed to adoption |
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Caoimhe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
168. The Kids rights come last |
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Debbie13 (176 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-28-04 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
185. This is an outrage!! |
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