Reply #26: Yeah well 'assholes' really isn't what I meant as much as maybe 'idiots' [View All]

[DaveJ]

I don't know how women are able to tolerate us. Obviously there must be something evolutionary about it. Like my wife told me stories about how some guy (she dated) used came over to her house wearing a pink wig in the middle of the night. A guy who talked on his phone throughout dinner on a first date. And you know, guys who will shake the ferris wheel and laugh when the girl is scared to death of heights. Guys who yell at their mothers.

Guys are much stupider socially than women. Can women be assholes? Yeah!!! But they know they are doing it, whereas we men are just idiots and usually do not know how to behave socially. I think this is because most expect women to fall into our laps with zero effort.

Actually it was not until recently that I was able to simply approach a woman as someone I could just be friends with, without having any assumptions or fantasies about having an affair. And I am not young. I could tell you even more stories about what guys say when women aren't around.