Reply #212: I understand your anger [View All]

[davidthegnome]

I've had very similar conversations with members of my family. I have but one close friend who probably views the issue in a way similar to your own. The attitude displayed is selfish and callous and even cruel - but it is not deliberately so. We live in a society which is driven by profit and profit motive, it stands to reason that this is so because a significant portion of the population wish it to be. The American dream (the one you have to be asleep to believe in) is still the driving force behind a lot of republican votes and a lot of republican ideals.

I've never known anyone with whom I agree on every issue I consider important. Plenty of people I like a great deal have acted in similar ways to the way your friend did. Generally, I choose not to discuss politics with them, otherwise we would be hard pressed to not be constantly fighting.

The mind is very changeable, as all things are, but it takes a long time, especially for those who are more conservative minded. If you want to end a friendship over this argument, that's your business... but do consider what you'll lose. There's a reason this guy has been your friend for some time - and friends who can make you laugh are few and far between. Consider his good qualities and whether he might, perhaps, be worthy of continued friendship in spite of his ignorance and cruelty in regards to some matters.

Just my opinion - as someone who has also gotten really pissed off about similar issues.