Reply #327: gosh, it really sounded like you wanted and interesting conversation until you threw in [View All]

[seabeyond]

that dont yell out me... ect. showing an incredible amount of resistence to actual dialogue.

that being said

my son and i have talked about this position. there are things that are addressed, like, putting himself out there. there is a difference between respectful and being timid. what exactly a male is getting when they are assholes. like assholes?, vulnerable low self esteem females? he doesnt want that and he recognizes he doesnt.

he has always had girls interested. and he has had that, thru being respectful, listening, trustworthy, insightful. who he is

he does not have the desire to change who he is in order to get a female he probably would not ne interested in anyway.....

and if it is just sex, when his time comes, he will be able to get that a plenty, i am sure.

he will have to address it as he walks his journey. but walking away from integrity isnt the answer. being less than who he is isnt the answer. he recognizes this thru his own self reflection