Reply #63: When I was getting married, since we were being married [View All]

[JerseygirlCT]

by both a Catholic priest and a rabbi, we had to do the silly pre-cana thing, too. We looked for and found one that was just one morning. It was so incredibly useless. The funniest part was the slide show on contraception. Idiots. And my poor husband, having to sit through that nonsense on my behalf.

We actually had better counsel from the rabbi and from the priest who was marrying us. Though a young guy, without first-hand experience, he knew to ask us to think about good questions: how we'd deal with X, or Y or Z. We really could have skipped the other silliness entirely.