It took a few seconds. It is reasonable to think it might take a few seconds after a woman says, "stop - this is hurting" for him to think "Wait! It's hurting her! I need to stop!" and then stop, and then withdraw. It isn't like he was expecting that it was going to hurt and was on stand-by waiting for her to tell him it was hurting. The expectation is that sex is going to be pleasurable.
I have had to tell my husband to stop due to a painful health issue. I've only been married 9 years so I guess I don't know as much as you, though. :eyes:
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