hate to use the 80's term co- dependant but....... [View All]

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I think i figured out how it happens,now after 25 years of it never getting any better i realize that it may best to walk away from a marriage and someone i really love.I would likw to straighten it out but You people who have been devorced probably have more wisdom about this so i am asking you total strangers to bear with my lack of english skills while i tug on your coats with this one.
When My wife and i met i was sort of broken by coming to L.A. and not being able to score a band that was going anywhere or get studio work etc.I had become a small fish in a huge mean pond.We started off as me the looser,partner as winner,she is 9 years younger and had that hope where i had lost some along the way. So this co-dependant stuff may be about a couple starting off that way and getting used to it like a bad habit.
It's sad but i want to not be the looser,the one with the temper
problem and all the rest of the little deal that takes over lives.
Both of us deserve better and it's odd that we fell into this trap because we should be above it.
It must hurt to admit to defeat when love is supposed to conquere all.