Reply #8: Thank you! Another good interpretation! [View All]

[smirkymonkey]

I remember that when I first saw the spider, I wanted to ignore it and go back to sleep, but thought that if I ignored it, it would come down and bite me - so I had to face it.

I happen to be a Cancer, and can be very crab-like in a lot of ways (indirect, hard shell, soft interior, pinchers for when people get too close - heh heh.)

The boundary thing is in the forefront with me right now - I am setting them more frequently and more solidly, but still feel uncomfortable with it. Thank you - this has been very enlightening. I was so confused by it at first, but after reading everyone's post, it seems so clear to me now! :hi: