Reply #99: Sending you and your grandma light [View All]

[rumpel]

perhaps all you need to do is send her your light of gratitude

Now when the bardo of dying dawns upon
me,
I will abandon all grasping, yearning and
attachment,
Enter undistracted into clear awareness of the
teaching,
And eject my consciousness into the space of
unborn
Awareness,
As I leave this compound body of flesh and
blood
I will know it to be a transitory illusion.

Padma Sambyava,
In the Tibetan Book of The Dead

on edit to add: intermediate state (Tib: bar-do) The state between death and rebirth.