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Here's what confuses me. I believe the actual act of sex can be stimulating with anyone or anything, it doesn't much matter. Where I find myself backing away (or at least I did in college) was the intimacy with another woman. Not sex...intimate living together, cuddling, kissing, etc. Like one issue for me (oh, man, I hope this isn't going too far) is dealing with another woman's cycles and not to mention PMS. I just couldn't do that.
On the other hand, I know a number of gay women who are very masculine and I find myself responding to them as if they were men. I don't mean sexually, because I'm damned near 60 and not likely to go out looking for love in all the wrong places. But just finding them male and attractive. And yet if I were to fantasize myself with them, something would be missing. really missing.
Gender issues blow my mind.
How are you able to move through these areas? Does it take a while?
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