Reply #8: It is not a contest to be won [View All]

[The Traveler]

It is a matter of being, of finding your right relationship with the world around you. For some, that means the path of faith. For others, like yourself, it means a different direction.

I would recommend being a loving and respectful husband. One can respect the faith of another without sharing it. When pressed, gently point out you cannot change your beliefs like one changes clothes. Give her what you yourself want ... respect and affection and the liberty to grow in the chosen direction.