Reply #89: :) Well, it seems to be the case that your anger bothers him as much [View All]

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as his lack of anger or lack of response to your anger. It could be considered controlling to withdraw from someone significant when that person is angry about something. Not that there is any control is marriage...:) Factually, my husband is a venter, always has been. Me, much less so. But curiously, whenever we switched roles earlier on, we were both uncomfortable with each other. Now, after 26 years, he doesn't care and neither do I.

He's a little better at realizing that someday's I'm just into listening to a pisser and I'm a little better at feigning interest when I could really care less.