Reply #90: Sex is so an extenuating circumstance [View All]

[JVS]

And unless you're his girlfriend, or his absence would leave you sitting around all by yourself, then he does not owe you a phone call. You asked about this scenario and that's my answer, if you don't like the answer then too bad. Saying "Why didn't you call?" or being upset about not calling is about as unplatonic as you can get.

Now I'll agree, if you are supposed to get picked up at the airport by this guy at a particular time and he bails without announcement for sex, then he's wronged you. Even if it were an agreement for the two of you to grab a drink without anyone else and he had bailed like that, he'd have been in the wrong. But since it was a gathering of multiple people, he knew you were in good hands and unless the improbable event of every member of the group getting lucky at once occurred, things would work out. Only mothers and SO's are allowed to be mad because they're worried that you didn't call.