Reply #96: How do we know what their priorities are? [View All]

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$9000 to one person is probably quite different from $9000 to another person.

Some people might spend $25,000 on the wedding and $3000 on the ring.

Some people might spend $1000 on the wedding and $9000 on the ring.

It's pretty hard to tell from a ring alone what someone's priorities are and if they are out of whack.

(For the record, my ring was not as expensive as $9000, so I'm not speaking defensively.)