From the guy end, the whole metro-sexual trend probably helped feed that. It's like it was trendy to at least appear to be gay for quite some time. They say it is fading, we shall see. I figure one should just be themselves and "fish where the fish are" - if you know what I mean.
The unfortunate side of your experience is that the guys who do things like that are probably at the bar specifically to try and hit on lesbians. Its a machismo thing that even as a straight man myself I don't understand. Why set yourself up for humiliating failure?
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