Reply #61: Everywhere... [View All]

[Kixel]

You can't say "this is the perfect place to meet someone." It's all about your attitude and your willingness to open up to new people. I know it sounds cheesy, but you can meet people where ever you go if you have the right attitude. Any conversation can lead to something.

I'm seeing someone I met at a political training. It's nice-he's got the values and beliefs I look for in someone I want to spend time with. It's easier to break the ice around people you agree with. Doing volunteer work of any kind is a great way to meet someone with like interests as well. Also, people are willing to talk and tend to be more welcoming in those kind of situations. If you are a religious person, get involved in the service aspect of your church.

The bonus point is even if you don't meet someone you feel better about yourself. In turn, that will increase your self confidence making it more likely for you to find someone. Make sure you feel good about who you are and relationships find you. Also, don't be afraid to take risks.