Reply #15: Been there. Done that. Except: [View All]

[lildreamer316]

..they were always very in the closet; therefore felt the need to lie to me; lead me on; and let their "friends" treat me like dirt. I was stupid enough to not know what the hell was going on.

I in NO WAY mean this badly; but I tell you what in all seriousness: I really need to meet some gay men that are comfortable with themselves. If anyone recalls about two weeks ago when I posted about having invited someone into my house that I then realized was completely crazy; and who scared the complete and utter shit out of me; it was because he was a deeply closeted gay man who had obviously accepted our invitation OVER a $1000/wk job offer soley because he thought he could have my husband. (THis is not boasting; if you want to know why this would be true; PM me). This is just the latest in a string of incidents like this; although not as bad (and not with this signifigant other; thank goodness!).I seem to have a knack for attracting the closeted ones; except the hubby--and that's a totally different story.
Sigh.
Sorry to bring down your silly thread!!
Carry on........