Reply #107: everything else can be overcome except a child [View All]

[pitohui]

i'm not raising or financially supporting someone else's child period end of sentence

i have even (a few decades ago) been involved with a republican, i was even involved w. a fundy religious nut, but having a child is the deal breaker -- it kills any thought of romance instantly, any sexual attraction dies like a snap of the fingers


religion/politics are something that can be ignored in the first flush of romance -- sure, these differences will kill the relationship in the end, but at least you can have good sex for a while

the dude who already has a kid, there is nothing sexually attractive about him to me, and i have never even as a teen-ager knowingly had sex w. a man who had a child, that is just...it just kills it, spoils any fantasy and makes it all a stupid depressing cheap soap opera