Reply #36: I'll give you an example of what bugs me [View All]

[imenja]

Last year I dated for a while a guy who I agreed with politically on most issues. Only when he came to my house, he left his clothes all over the floor and never picked them up. After a shower, he'd leave my bathroom littered with towels. When I cooked him dinner he wouldn't even bring his dishes to the sink let alone clean up. He was also incredibly selfish in other areas I can't discuss on DU. So despite his relatively young age and stated political views, he was the biggest chauvinist I've ever encountered in my life. My grandfather, who died in his mid 90s and raised in a completely traditional view of the world would never have dreamed of treating a woman that way. So how a 35 year old can act that way is beyond me.