My daughter's ex-boyfriend had his mom IM her. I am so aggravated. [View All]

[seaglass]

My daughter broke up with her bf by the end of her first week in college (woohoo!). He called her, IM'd her and texted her multiple times a day wanting to know where she was, who she was with, what she was doing and would get mad if she didn't respond right away or he didn't like her answers. He also had a friend that went to school with her that reported back to him (only once - but still - creepy). She finally couldn't take it anymore and broke up with the controlling, manipulative little bastard.

He has not stopped the IM'ing, texting, calling. Then he had his sister IM my daughter to tell her how heartbroken he was. OK. But a couple days ago his mom IM'd my daughter. She told my daughter that she broke her son's heart and that he cried in his mom's arms like a baby, something he hadn't done since he was a little boy. He's 22 BTW.

WTF is with these people? It's not enough that my daughter's ex-bf manipulated her, now he gets his sister and mom into the act too?

I feel like calling them to tell them all to fuck off but I would NEVER actually do it.

I don't like the idea of a 40-something year old woman manipulating my 18 yo daughter and am not sure I can hold back on giving her a call if she does it again...or should I just butt out?