Reply #11: wow. [View All]

[idgiehkt]

Cool. I'm starting to think I might end up like Cher, lol. This is probably going to sound a little mean, but I'm finding that younger men seem to be more comfortable with a direct person (such as myself)...I don't know it just seems a better fit. Sometimes I think that men my age or older don't really know what to make of me...like I possibly scare them. Maybe even offend them?? It's very strange. I think this generation that grew up with rap has a little bit more open view of sexuality and don't expect women to be so damn coy and game-playing when it comes to that kind of thing, behaviors I a)suck at and b)find incredibly boring. I'm kind of tired of getting my feelings hurt by prudish men.

Shouldn't have said any of that. Oh well, f*ck it, it's been on my mind.

I don't find any of this problem with women. Not only that, but I think heterosexuality is brutal on 'older' women, something that I don't even think really exists in the lesbian world in a big way except maybe in places like New York and LA. I kind of shapeshift in and out of these paradigms and I think it's just sad the way that older women are sometimes viewed in the hyper-visual straight world. It's like a whole other dimension around women; so it's also good to know that some younger men prefer older women.