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MineralMan

(146,329 posts)
4. Here's an old Thanksgiving memory:
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:42 PM
Nov 2015

Thanksgiving dinner, of course, was always a sort of potluck affair. Everyone brought something. One time, way back in the early 1960s, my maternal grandmother, who was in her late 60s or early 70s at the time, was tasked with bringing the mashed potatoes. Bring them she did. A huge pot full of them. Far more than could possibly have been consumed, even by the crowd around the table that year.

As the family matriarch at the time, she was imperial in her insistence that everyone have at least two servings of her mashed potatoes. She urged each of us to have "just a little more," despite our being stuffed to the gills already. She paid special attention to my father, as always, since he had the audacity to marry her daughter. "Have just one more helping, George." He had demurred on that request already a few times, and did not want any more mashed potatoes, good as they were. "No, thanks, Mary," he said, one more time. He was the only member of the extended family who ever called her by her given name.

Well, Grandma wasn't pleased, and dug out another serving and plopped it on his plate. Last straw for my always-patient father. He reached across and took my Grandmother's now empty plate and began scooping out mashed potatoes and adding them to her plate. "Please have some more mashed potatoes, Mary. I insist," he said, smiling all the while. After about the third scoop, Grandma laughed and said, "I see your point, George." The laughter became universal.

That story gets retold every Thanksgiving, and still generates peals of laughter.

Yes, we are family!!! Thinkingabout Nov 2015 #1
It's getting late. I suppose I should take the turkey out of the deep freeze and get started. NurseJackie Nov 2015 #2
Sounds like a plan to me. MineralMan Nov 2015 #5
Same house rule here. JonathanRackham Nov 2015 #3
ha ha LittleGirl Nov 2015 #17
Here's an old Thanksgiving memory: MineralMan Nov 2015 #4
We don't censor ourselves AgingAmerican Nov 2015 #6
We won't be talking about it today. MoonRiver Nov 2015 #7
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. MineralMan Nov 2015 #8
Thank you MM. MoonRiver Nov 2015 #9
So sad. I hope you can all share MineralMan Nov 2015 #10
Yes we will. MoonRiver Nov 2015 #11
Holidays are hard Worried senior Nov 2015 #12
My father died unexpectedly late on Thanksgiving Eve (Wed.) a number of years ago. No Vested Interest Nov 2015 #19
It is hard, worried mcar Nov 2015 #22
We may not 'talk' about it this day... yallerdawg Nov 2015 #13
The conservative side of my family makes, then breaks that rule every year, as well. canoeist52 Nov 2015 #14
One Thanksgiving my brother-in-law and his brothers TlalocW Nov 2015 #15
Sounds good to me. lovemydog Nov 2015 #16
My Family Can't Talk Politics - I Will Crucify Their Nonsense And They Know It Yallow Nov 2015 #18
My family specifically talks about politics and religion. JaneyVee Nov 2015 #20
What Does Your Family Talk About? Yallow Nov 2015 #23
DU is not my family ibegurpard Nov 2015 #21
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