Bereavement

polly7

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4. Kesha I'm so sorry your surgery is causing you so much pain.

Thu Aug 23, 2012, 11:24 PM

Aug 2012

I hope they've given you some effective meds to help control it. And I'm so sorry about your Mum. These anniversaries are so hard, and I hope you have someone around you to help you with all this. You're so right about the 'wham' hitting you, I feel it all the time, but yesterday at an Envision consult the woman asked about my Dad and I couldn't even speak it hurt so much. Yet she was so kind and easy to talk to. Maybe next time. I really do think he would want us all to be ok, it's just that I can't even think of that yet. All that goes through my mind is the torment he must have been feeling. Thank you ... all ... for being here. It helps more than you know. Rest up and heal! I hope the pain lessens very soon.

polly

p.s. you make more sense on meds than I do without!

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Polly, Your heartbreak is evident in your words. auntAgonist Aug 2012 #1

Thank you kesha, polly7 Aug 2012 #2

Don't EVER worry about maybe making someone feel worse ok? ? auntAgonist Aug 2012 #3

Kesha I'm so sorry your surgery is causing you so much pain. polly7 Aug 2012 #4

Polly....I'm so sorry you are having so much pain livetohike Aug 2012 #5

some days are just so hard orleans Sep 2012 #6

Polly, I had a similar relationship with my parents, particularly my Mom. I still have trouble GreenPartyVoter Sep 2012 #7

Polly, I'm hoping your days are easier. How are you? auntAgonist Sep 2012 #8

Sorry, I probably shouldn't have posted this thread and found it very hard to come polly7 Sep 2012 #9

Polly, you are WELCOME here all the time any time you feel like it. auntAgonist Sep 2012 #10