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DollyM

(851 posts)
25. It's been a little over a month . . .
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 12:25 AM
Mar 2012

I am taking care of my mom's three cats and a dog at her house. I am not sure how long I can keep this up but I told her I would take care of her animals and I will. I wish someone would write a pamplet called "What to do when you are executor after someone dies" because I feel like I am rowing without a paddle on this stuff! I took my mom's taxes to be done and found that she owed 3000.00 dollars because she cashed in all her annuities to pay her medical bills and living expenses. I was in a panic because there is no money left of hers. Then had a meeting with her attorney who told me that the taxes are not my responsibility and not to file the tax return, when the IRS catches up with it, they will simply put a lien on her house so they will be paid when her house is sold (and that is a long time in the future). I didn't know the will had to be filed at the courthouse, good thing I talked to the attorney and he told me that. I am just wondering what else I am not doing right! sigh . . . I don't want to own anything when I die, it will be much less complicated!

my mom is dying . . . [View all] DollyM Jan 2012 OP
My thoughts are with you Dolly. boston bean Jan 2012 #1
Oh, Dolly, I am so sorry... Rhiannon12866 Jan 2012 #2
My heart is with you Dolly. The relationship you've had with your Mother auntAgonist Jan 2012 #3
vibes to you and your mom. My mom is going through a rough patch though we hope medication applegrove Jan 2012 #4
So sorry to hear this. ceveritt Jan 2012 #5
with tears and love orleans Jan 2012 #6
Thinking of you and your Mom Dolly and sending you livetohike Jan 2012 #7
I am so sorry! *hugs* I lost both my parents suddenly to heart attacks, but pancreatic cancer took GreenPartyVoter Jan 2012 #8
Thinking of you and your Mom, Dolly polly7 Jan 2012 #9
Peace and love to you and your mom, Dolly... veness Jan 2012 #10
How are you doing Dolly? auntAgonist Jan 2012 #11
My thoughts are with you. I wish there was something I could say to help you. Paper Roses Jan 2012 #12
I'm so sorry...neither way pipi_k Jan 2012 #13
my mom has passed . . . DollyM Jan 2012 #14
Hi Dolly, I just read your story and was going to send you prayers for your mother's recovery before Ecumenist Jan 2012 #15
cancer just sucks so much! DollyM Feb 2012 #16
DollyM I'm so very sorry for your loss. auntAgonist Feb 2012 #17
Belated Happy Very Special Birthday Wishes to You Ecumenist! veness Feb 2012 #22
My sympathy on the loss of your Mom livetohike Feb 2012 #18
Dear Dolly Tsiyu Feb 2012 #19
i'm very sorry, dolly orleans Feb 2012 #21
Their celebration continues, and they have Frosties too. n/t veness Feb 2012 #23
Dolly, so sorry about your mom..... Uben Feb 2012 #20
My heart goes out to you. EmeraldCityGrl Feb 2012 #24
It's been a little over a month . . . DollyM Mar 2012 #25
My mom died a year ago last December LaurenG Mar 2012 #26
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