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Bereavement

No Vested Interest

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5. Someone in husband's family made the decision to reach out.

Reply to murielm99 (Original post)

Tue Aug 25, 2015, 01:13 PM

Aug 2015

Maybe you don't yet know who that is, but that person will be there.

It will be good for husband to see and be with his sister, whom he may not have the opportunity to be with for many years after this get-together.
Family does matter, even though family members are all different.

Put on a vague smile, and keep lips zipped except for niceties.
You can do it.

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Any thoughts on how to keep it civil? [View all] murielm99 Aug 2015 OP

try to give them the benefit of the doubt. KMOD Aug 2015 #1

"Thank you for caring about him, we can't talk about it, but thank you for uppityperson Aug 2015 #2

Thank you. n/t murielm99 Aug 2015 #3

Take your cue from your husband, since they're his family DeadLetterOffice Aug 2015 #4

Someone in husband's family made the decision to reach out. No Vested Interest Aug 2015 #5

Thanks to you and everyone else. murielm99 Aug 2015 #6

Family is Family. Not a lot choice in the matter. No Vested Interest Aug 2015 #7

We are leaving in about thirty minutes. murielm99 Aug 2015 #8

Enjoy. No Vested Interest Aug 2015 #9

If I speak to anyone on DU about it, murielm99 Aug 2015 #10

My son coached me on how to converse with my long estranged uber winger uncle. mahina Aug 2015 #11

I'd be like are you going to invite us out for a day out on the river/lake/etc on it? 47of74 Sep 2015 #12

Not I! mahina Sep 2015 #13

He bought this used houseboat. 47of74 Sep 2015 #14

That reminds me of the definition of a boat mahina Sep 2015 #15

Yeah that's about it. 47of74 Sep 2015 #16