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Marthe48

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Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:38 PM Aug 2023

I tried to ignore the kid on my street [View all]

I last posted the beginning of August. Ignoring didn't work. I've had to call the sheriff and the state patrol multiple times in the last week. I guess I didn't have to call about the illegal dirt bike, but I just found out he isn't going back to his mother for school, so he'll be here. I decided I don't want to live the rest of time hearing his crap. So I have been calling law enforcement. The kid has escalated to harassing me. He got a couple of his friends to stand in front of my house, first in front then at the side yelling and screaming at me. They didn't leave until a deputy came out and told them to leave. I found out the kid has a police band monitor (?) so he can hear about what they're doing. I have to wonder why a 16 year old boy needs to keep pissing off a neighbor and ride his lawnmower or dirt bike all over the area, and carry a police monitor with him.

My daughter and son-in-law came to visit over the weekend and saw what was going on. They installed a security camera for me, but I think I'll check out another system, as I already see shortcomings in the one I got. Some DUers offered ideas that I now have time to check.

Last night the same kids harassed me again and I called the sheriff again. Just to document. Today, after my daughter and son-in-law left, I printed some notes I've been keeping and drove over to the barracks. I introduced myself, gave the trooper my notes and asked if i was being a nuisance. He said that I should keep calling and that's what they're here for. I felt better.

His grandmother has at least told the boy that I wrote the anonymous text about his guns. I didn't. And her last text to me was a google description of mental illness she thinks I have. Her idea of medicating is drinking wine and chewing CBD gummies, or whatever they are. I have a reputation I am proud of, and I don't need to be lied about. I'll admit I have depression and anziety, but those aren't what she decided i have, so she is lying again. I am thinking about consulting a lawyer. I don't know if she's told anyone else, but if I find out she has, I'll see what I can do to stop that. Also thinking about getting a restraining order against the kid to stop the harassment. He told my son-in-law last night that he wouldn't stop by my house if I stopped calling the cops. He has the situation upside down and backwards. We are all white, and funnily enough, the neighborhood used to be a lot more law-abiding. I remember the same neighbors going after a speeding driver on our street and trapping him up the hill. 1990s. Now, the same neighbors are fine letting this kid speed through the neighborhood, harass an old lady, and pull a trailer full of kids behind a yard tractor after dark. All boyish high spirits.

It isn't fun. We hosted exchange students and mentored international students. I'm friends with many of those students online and have stayed in touch with their local friends. My grandkids like me and their friends do too. What's happening on my own street is not something I ever expected.

Well, as always, thank for listening. I am venting, and it does help. Blessings

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Perused this and not seeing any issue but you are harassing at least equally and LizBeth Aug 2023 #1
didn't go into detail. Marthe48 Aug 2023 #3
Since you clearly stated that you had not read the original post, your criticism niyad Aug 2023 #18
So it is about a kid making noise. 'nough said. LizBeth Aug 2023 #37
Continuing to defend the indefensible. Got it. niyad Aug 2023 #40
Indefensible, lol. My tolerance for other human beings sharing planet is much higher. LizBeth Aug 2023 #42
Commenting without reading AKwannabe Aug 2023 #44
Commenting on a post with lots of info but making clear hadn't read first post LizBeth Aug 2023 #46
And if he has guns? viva la Aug 2023 #20
What if. that is not part of the story. LizBeth Aug 2023 #38
Hogwash! AKwannabe Aug 2023 #41
Self defense from noise LizBeth Aug 2023 #43
Of course your didn't read that he has sent friends to her house AKwannabe Aug 2023 #45
There was an occasion AFTER she had been harassing him with cops his friends made noise LizBeth Aug 2023 #47
You're doing the right thing RainCaster Aug 2023 #2
Thank you Marthe48 Aug 2023 #5
At least one Marthe48 Aug 2023 #36
There's no better evidence than security camera footage. But maybe hide the cameras. Beakybird Aug 2023 #4
I talked to a contractor last week Marthe48 Aug 2023 #6
You're welcome. I'm on the other side of the equation. Beakybird Aug 2023 #7
Can you add a recorder that measures decibels? CrispyQ Aug 2023 #8
I had some neighbor issues, though not as bad. Susan Calvin Aug 2023 #21
I am so sorry this is happening to you. He needs to be removed. Karadeniz Aug 2023 #9
He needs discipline... 2naSalit Aug 2023 #11
A state trooper just stopped by Marthe48 Aug 2023 #10
If you think they might come to the door or bother you in your yard... 2naSalit Aug 2023 #12
I won't go to the door or open it Marthe48 Aug 2023 #14
The little creep is MOMFUDSKI Aug 2023 #13
He acts like he isn't wrong Marthe48 Aug 2023 #15
You're not alone. cbabe Aug 2023 #16
I'm not Marthe48 Aug 2023 #17
You might consider getting a protection order from the courts. Wonder Why Aug 2023 #19
I have that idea on my list Marthe48 Aug 2023 #24
Many years ago, there was a truly nasty kid (about 13) who terrorized the niyad Aug 2023 #22
IMO, the kid and gramma need to be afraid of something. Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #23
Mace and Pepper Spray are not legal everywhere... 3825-87867 Aug 2023 #25
OK first you get some fishing line... tavernier Aug 2023 #26
Or maybe take some video of them when you observe wrong-doing. calimary Aug 2023 #27
I've seen that episode of Midsomer Murders Marthe48 Aug 2023 #29
Happy to make you smile tavernier Aug 2023 #30
Lol me too. Nt XanaDUer2 Aug 2023 #48
Be safe @Marthe48. It's obvious this kid doesn't have any home training or respect for anyone. iluvtennis Aug 2023 #28
It won't last forever Red Mountain Aug 2023 #31
This is awful. See a lawyer to check out your rights Nululu Aug 2023 #32
It's hard to overstate how impossible this is for an elderly person alone- viva la Aug 2023 #33
That's too bad for you Marthe48 Aug 2023 #34
I hope your other neighbors are supportive viva la Aug 2023 #35
been there, sadly. mopinko Aug 2023 #39
Sorry for your experiences Marthe48 Aug 2023 #49
well, when u start an urban farm, mopinko Aug 2023 #50
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