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postatomic

(1,771 posts)
4. There isn't much you can do
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:08 PM
Jul 2015

If it's California there are a few things you can do, but it can be very difficult. You would have to go to court and prove that she is harmful to herself and/or others. You might have to go back to court again if she refuses to take any meds. There are so many people like this woman living on the streets and the system is designed to protect them.... to a point.

The process of convincing her to come back with you could take weeks or even months if she is in full blown Schizophrenia. If you go out there and just throw her in your car what are you going to do with her?

I truly wish I had a magic answer to this problem. Could you go out there and just spend some time with her? From there you could talk with some people that may be able to help you - help her.

Can only imagine what this is doing to you and those that care about her. Be strong. Be patient. I know that's just cliche' bullshit but I've gone through this. It is very very difficult.

All the best to you.


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