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vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
Tue Nov 28, 2023, 11:11 PM Nov 2023

Finally hit a breaking point today [View all]

So I wrote out a huge email to friends and family. And well I'm regretting it now, but at the time I was frustrated and just so done being nice and taken advantage of. I'll post the email of what I said.

Hello. Normally each holiday season I normally bake everyone goodies as a Christmas gift since its homemade and easier on the wallet. But this year I will not be doing any baked goods. For the last three fucking Christmas's I've have had to pry a goddamn thank you from the people I've made shit for because they are either too fucking selfish to do so on their own or don't simply care. Its suppose to be a season about giving right? So why is it so fucking difficult to give a thank you? So with that. I am done going forward. Bake your own fucking cookies, make your own cake pops because I'm done being unappreciated for the hard work I do baking this shit every fucking merry holiday season. And those who have the curiosity to say thanks or give in return, you're unaffected.


Yeah I regret sending that out because I gotten a few replies from the ones I called out telling me they said thank you and really don't understand the unjust attack. And that made it worse since I said. WHEN HAVE YOU EVER SAID THANK YOU OUTSIDE OF ME PRYING ONE OUT OF YOU!?

Yeah I had a bad day and this holiday has me more so stressed than previous ones
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Finally hit a breaking point today [View all] vercetti2021 Nov 2023 OP
I'm sorry you are undergoing cilla4progress Nov 2023 #1
Hmmm..this sounds familiar. Have you sent out a similar message? Deuxcents Nov 2023 #2
We all break down sometimes, we are human. Bluethroughu Nov 2023 #3
you kind of went a bit oveboard but I truly understand the sentiment Shellback Squid Nov 2023 #4
Sounds like you need some hugs. Nonjudgmental hugs. calimary Nov 2023 #5
Preach! vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #14
visualizing peace, ease, and gratitude for you! n/t KatK Nov 2023 #6
don't beat yourself up LoveTheDU Nov 2023 #7
My bestie did vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #13
Hang in there brother kimbutgar Nov 2023 #8
Sister vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #11
Yeah, just give them all socks Warpy Nov 2023 #9
I should for the shelter vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #12
They will be XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #16
Now That's One Holiday Cooking Show I'd Watch!!!.......nt global1 Nov 2023 #10
I'm trying not to constantly reach out XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #15
Here here! vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #17
I need higher self-esteem XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #18
Wonderful post! OldBaldy1701E Nov 2023 #19
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