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DebJ

(7,699 posts)
Tue May 27, 2014, 09:32 PM May 2014

My parents just moved to Asheboro and bought a new car. [View all]

They paid 35000 for a van with a lift because Mom is in a wheelchair.
Now the van is ready, lift installed, check cashed, and NOW the dealer
tells them that until Dad gets his license in NC, he can't register the car.
You are not allowed to own a car in North Carolina unless you have a license.
WTF? So old people can't buy a car and outfit it to suit the needs of their
handicap, and then hire someone to drive it for them? That's what my Aunt
has to do in Maryland; she has elephantitis and has lost a leg to it so far.

In NC, to get a license you have to take even the driving test again. Here in Pa,
all I had to do was surrender my Maryland license. Dad's 82 and he's going to
be so nervous I don't know how he will pass. Mom can't get a license thanks to
a drunk driver who put her in a wheelchair and almost blinded her at the age of 60,
crushing her eye sockets with her dash board and he ran into her head on at 55 mph.

Dad doesn't drive far or often; just to a local diner for lunch. Often my sister drives
the van for him. Whenever there is another licensed driver going, Dad has them drive.
He's not dumb. But they do need to get from place to place and my sister can't always take
them. And when someone else drives, it is my parent's expense for car insurance, gas,
mileage, etc. So now they will have to what, get a cab that Mom can't even get into?

I'm sorry but I'm really hating on the south right now. At least they did manage to register
to vote; I was worried about that with the changes. Just that now, they won't be able to get
to the polls. My sister is a Jehovah Witness so she CAN'T drive them to vote.







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And of course, elleng May 2014 #1
It's all about the commission HeiressofBickworth May 2014 #3
Because Freedumb. It seems dumber the voter, dumber the representatives voted in to create Fred Sanders May 2014 #2
Not Just NC armed_and_liberal May 2014 #4
If you can't get liability insurance without a license, then how come in Pa DebJ May 2014 #5
Let your Asheboro sister work it out No Vested Interest May 2014 #10
Actually I think she would enjoy having them completely immobilized. DebJ May 2014 #18
Been there... armed_and_liberal May 2014 #32
The dealer should of let your dad know CC May 2014 #6
But that law makes no provision for people like my Aunt, who is wheelchair bound DebJ May 2014 #7
I agree that there should be CC May 2014 #9
Thanks. DebJ May 2014 #20
Cut the crap! Your sister CAN drive your parents to vote.... TheDebbieDee May 2014 #8
Did you post on the CC May 2014 #11
Thanks but see my last paragraph in the OP. n/t DebJ May 2014 #13
Oops CC May 2014 #14
Actually one day my sister said my mother needed medication DebJ May 2014 #17
I didn't see this until now. CC May 2014 #30
There will be someone to get your parents to the polls. No Vested Interest May 2014 #12
LOL how absurd I didn't think of that, since I've volunteered myself to do that. DebJ May 2014 #19
Good parents. As a senior myself I understand the beginnings of No Vested Interest May 2014 #33
No, actually, this is a valid reason for her because of the JW. DebJ May 2014 #16
i wish i could help. barbtries May 2014 #35
Check the state law regarding... JayhawkSD May 2014 #15
Thanks! n/t DebJ May 2014 #21
when i moved to NC i had to turn in my CA license barbtries May 2014 #22
thanks! a cousin of mine who worked there sent me an email late last night DebJ May 2014 #23
Plural probably means written and eye tests. JayhawkSD May 2014 #27
agree. barbtries May 2014 #28
"Hating the south" because of a North Carolina law... Nitram May 2014 #24
You are right. And my Dad is from New Orleans by the way. n/t DebJ May 2014 #25
Sounds like them governmentt hating southerners actually love government randys1 May 2014 #26
Dad can't keep his old DL more than 30 days. FBaggins May 2014 #29
Oh no I hope I don't have to parallel park at 65 or something. DebJ May 2014 #31
YEAH! NC changed their laws effective May 1 2014. He got his license yesterday. DebJ May 2014 #34
excellent. barbtries May 2014 #36
Hate I am let to this, but for future reference Lee-Lee Jun 2014 #37
Brilliant! Thanks. n/t DebJ Jun 2014 #38
I'm sorry your parents are having difficulties...but voting should not be a problem. mnhtnbb Jun 2014 #39
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