Advice wanted for great relationship... gone...

[ClusterFreak]

16. Thanks for your comments Croney.

I actually don't think that meeting someone else is the case. One reason being she would've had to have met them, fell for them, and fell out of any interest she had in me, between the Tuesday afternoon we spent together at my place and two days later on a Thursday when I first asked her about getting together on the upcoming weekend. It's possible, but I doubt it. Why her attitude did a 180 two days later is anybody's guess... but she was a changed person. Disinterested, wildly unenthusiastic. I think she might've felt jilted like I wrote in my screed above. Or, perhaps she wanted to play things a little more cautiously, and felt a third get together in such a short period of time would make her appear too eager. Maybe it was a little bit of both. Ultimately though, when I got mad at her attitude, she got mad enough to send me packing.

Back last fall we had a micro version of a falling out (the only other time), which lasted for a couple of days and in which I was upset again at something she did. I won't get into it, but with this latest example the common thread is that I challenged her about something she didn't want to admit. She doesn't like being challenged. I have learned that the hard way.

Cheers, and thanks again for taking the time to read and offer your insight on my lengthy post.