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Shiv

(113 posts)
14. Thank you and don't let up
Fri May 29, 2020, 02:31 AM
May 2020

I'm still a bit young to have seen the cycles of these things, but I have a strong feeling and thinking about the history I do know this is largely a matter of an ebb and flow, and things are at a crest right now.

With how hard it can be to keep track of days lately I'm not sure if it was a couple days ago or more, but my mom just recently had this bizarre vivid nightmare that ended with her shooting a racist a-hole in the forehead. This is the woman that raised me to be nonviolent and pacifist. It was shocking to hear her describe it because it was the last turn I expected the dream to take when she related it to me.

What makes me hopeful despite the carnage and how things probably, like they usually do, will get worse before they get better, is that the pace of things really seems to have moved up on people being fed up, racists losing their jobs and being more and more widely decried when they reveal themselves on viral media. I've been discussing it quite a bit, hence the bad dreams all around here lately, but the consensus reached is that a tipping point, a critical mass, has been reached again.

Wishful thinking maybe, but what it reminds me of in my experience is how the ground suddenly shifted in the U.S. and a lot of the world on gay marriage. A younger generation that didn't get why it shouldn't be, more people having someone they knew to relate to if that is what it took to get them to empathize, it just clicked and while a backwash still yells loudly, things lurched forward until the next set of snags slowed it back up.

I really hope, and hope you can to, believe maybe we are experiencing the same thing on race.

It could be that the last desperate dying gasp of a movement of hate is feeling cornered and will go the way of the whigs.

it's said this has always been present (mb from time immemorial) but sprinkleeninow May 2020 #1
Love to you too. Lunabell May 2020 #2
love is good! also know that you are the crown of creation! sprinkleeninow May 2020 #3
... alwaysinasnit May 2020 #4
We are all there in this moment of grief. But this, too, shall pass. You are not alone. Hekate May 2020 #5
I suspect that most of us feel the same. Cornus May 2020 #6
I was so angry last night I thought my head would explode. I hear you. Maraya1969 May 2020 #7
The Trump presidency has unwittingly exposed the rampant racism in this country. zanana1 May 2020 #8
I agree. Richard58 May 2020 #17
All decent people are sad and angry, but we are not hopeless and helpless. NNadir May 2020 #9
Things are far better than they were 50 years ago. maxsolomon May 2020 #10
nope llashram May 2020 #18
OK, then things are DIFFERENT. maxsolomon Jun 2020 #24
you are entitled llashram Jun 2020 #25
Hard to believe I'm the optimist in this exchange. maxsolomon Jun 2020 #26
You're really at ground zero for that bullshit. Warpy May 2020 #11
I am so afraid MF45 is going to start a lite civil war kimbutgar May 2020 #12
If by insane cult members you mean the military police, well then, posse comitatus might be for you. Missn-Hitch May 2020 #21
Considering the material you are dealing with, soldierant May 2020 #13
Thank you and don't let up Shiv May 2020 #14
My heart goes out to you, Lunabell. Niagara May 2020 #15
I don't blame you, Lunabell Trueblue Texan May 2020 #16
Same. These last two months have been an absolute nightmare. Initech May 2020 #19
My astrocast warned me about some tangential Mercury conjunction happening lambchopp59 May 2020 #20
You are not alone Lulu KC May 2020 #22
I feel for you Shiv May 2020 #23
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