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wnylib

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84. Holidays seemed to last forever. We had 2 weeks
Tue Dec 10, 2019, 07:38 AM
Dec 2019

off of school. The Sunday before Xmas, my father's family gathered at his father's farm. My father had 8 siblings who brought their spouses and children. Grandpa's tree had bubble lights that fascinated and mesmerizrd me.

Grandma had died when I was 2, so everybody brought dishes for a buffet dinner. Ham, turkey, scalloped potatoes, veggie casseroles, salad greens, friut jello molds, nut breads, pies, cookies, and seversl kinds of fudge. Hot foods were heated up on the old, woodburning cookstove and oven by my aunts, with practiced skill.

After eating, the cousins went outdoors to go down the steep road in front of the house on sleds snd 'saucers.' No traffic. It was too isolared. Adults stayed inside, snacking, drinking, gossiping, and playing cards.

We ate leftovers in the evening before going home. Driving down the road after our sleds had packed down the snow was tricky. After a few slides into a ditch, we learned to spread ashes from the cookstove and sawdust from the log bin over the road first.

Several businesses shut down for a week or 2 during the holidays so my father and seversl uncles and cousins had time off. The week between Xmas and New Year was for visiting, which included my mother's 2nd and 3rd cousins from her mother's 9 siblings.

We always had a large box of chocolates, some Xmas cookies, and a dish of mixed nuts for guests. Mixed drinks or beer for adults. There were cases of 7 ounce pop bottles for kids in the basement -- orange, cherry, cream soda, and root beer. I was a generous hostess as a kid because I got a chance to take chocolates, cookies, and pop for myself every time I offered them to my cousins.

We had the metallic tinsel (recycled every year - even though it was probably toxic heavy metals) jpak Dec 2019 #1
I wonder Ohiogal Dec 2019 #5
We had to some out of our beagle's butt - LOL TexasBushwhacker Dec 2019 #39
Same here.... RazBerryBeret Dec 2019 #78
up to the early 70's it was a lead based foil Lithos Dec 2019 #33
yes, they were outlawed in the 60s because they were lead Hamlette Dec 2019 #35
Sometime in my teens, I realized our 'icicles' were so heavy because they were made of lead. eppur_se_muova Dec 2019 #50
Yes, those were the height of coolness back in the day- lark Dec 2019 #90
the golliwog in #10 Skittles Dec 2019 #2
I remember the golliwog from an A.A. Milne book. cwydro Dec 2019 #86
Pretty much captures it. I still put up a vintage aluminum tree with the color wheel. Hoyt Dec 2019 #3
I always coveted those. Laffy Kat Dec 2019 #4
Our neighbor across the street had one Ohiogal Dec 2019 #6
My aunt had one of those TexasBushwhacker Dec 2019 #40
We have a modern knock-off of a vintage aluminum tree, and we have several large ornaments from deurbano Dec 2019 #43
Awesome! I have a friend who does too. CaptainTruth Dec 2019 #62
Cats still look the same! Merlot Dec 2019 #7
That was a fun link. llmart Dec 2019 #8
For sure Ohiogal Dec 2019 #9
That's exactly what my parents did. llmart Dec 2019 #11
The 60s seemed to really begin the big push Ohiogal Dec 2019 #17
That was it, magical! CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #23
Nostalgia can be a cruel thing sometimes. llmart Dec 2019 #24
Childhood CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #26
Yikes! llmart Dec 2019 #28
All I can say is ... CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #44
your socks were my socks KT2000 Dec 2019 #54
I hear you..... Ohiogal Dec 2019 #59
Wow. I thought we were the only ones who got that in our stockings. llmart Dec 2019 #61
We always got an orange, walnuts and candy canes in our stockings The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #70
we got an apple, orange, tangerines, nuts, Hershey's kisses yellowdogintexas Dec 2019 #82
I had three grandparents who were, at their very best behavior, indifferent to Christmas... hunter Dec 2019 #69
great story! KT2000 Dec 2019 #74
Not much attractive about the styles of... 3catwoman3 Dec 2019 #10
yep - this is why I find the HGTV-ish "mid century modern" trend unappealing. nt spooky3 Dec 2019 #20
My wife and I just finished watching Season Three of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. Aristus Dec 2019 #30
Very much so...we always had a real tree, next to a real fireplace with a real fire in it Glorfindel Dec 2019 #12
Hey Glorfindel Ohiogal Dec 2019 #14
my mom went with a white tree decorated with turquoise and pink. NRaleighLiberal Dec 2019 #13
But that was so trendy back then! Ohiogal Dec 2019 #15
Christmas cards CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #16
My sister and I Ohiogal Dec 2019 #18
I recall it taking a few evenings CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #22
My Dad would haul the big ladder out Ohiogal Dec 2019 #25
There's a dollhouse I recognize! madamesilverspurs Dec 2019 #19
I still have a glass ball ornament Ohiogal Dec 2019 #21
I had to get to 31 to find them. Rabbit ears. Lochloosa Dec 2019 #27
Lots of memories, thanks. dem4decades Dec 2019 #29
The silver tree's samplegirl Dec 2019 #31
Another fond Christmas memory Ohiogal Dec 2019 #32
The really oldest tinsel was the best, sort of heavy. northoftheborder Dec 2019 #34
Yes, it was lead, as I discovered when I melted it down. :) eppur_se_muova Dec 2019 #52
The two things that I remember from my childhood Christmases TexasTowelie Dec 2019 #36
They did a nice job preserving a bunch of that look and feel Jarqui Dec 2019 #37
Sure looks familiar. Check out the tinsel! The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #38
Is that a family photo, VO? Ohiogal Dec 2019 #42
Yes, about 1953. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #47
My mother used to cut my bangs practically up to... 3catwoman3 Dec 2019 #49
It seems to have been the style in those days, at least for little kids. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #51
I had real short bangs like that, too Ohiogal Dec 2019 #64
I'm just tickled that light strings only have 1 light go out at a time now.. Amimnoch Dec 2019 #41
Good memories marlakay Dec 2019 #45
I loved Christmas then and now; I've collected ornaments in my travels and also as gifts. Liberty Belle Dec 2019 #46
I remember my Mom threatening my Dad with divorce if he ever bought a flocked tree. n/t TygrBright Dec 2019 #48
Ahhh - funny KT2000 Dec 2019 #55
They're back. Pretty but expensive.... Duppers Dec 2019 #67
Besides the lead icicles, there was also the asbestos fake snow... SeattleVet Dec 2019 #53
It's a wonder any of us KT2000 Dec 2019 #56
Or even a Gilbert Atomic Energy Lab! SeattleVet Dec 2019 #57
Whaaat?? KT2000 Dec 2019 #66
It was expensive for the times. SeattleVet Dec 2019 #68
Yikes!! KT2000 Dec 2019 #75
Never got one at Chubby & Tubby (damn, I miss that store!) SeattleVet Dec 2019 #76
Good move! KT2000 Dec 2019 #81
I loved our bubble lights! Danascot Dec 2019 #58
I remember those! Ohiogal Dec 2019 #60
That is about all I remember from my childhood Christmases rurallib Dec 2019 #79
We had those, or something like them! I loved them! The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #80
I'm amazed by how small most of those trees are! Coventina Dec 2019 #63
A little before my time, but some things look slightly familiar. smirkymonkey Dec 2019 #65
Tinsel or icicles or whatever that silver stuff was mnhtnbb Dec 2019 #71
We called them dingle-dangles, no idea why lol. cwydro Dec 2019 #87
Did mom like her electric floor scrubber? hunter Dec 2019 #72
#4 912gdm Dec 2019 #73
We always had a live tree (through 1981) The Genealogist Dec 2019 #77
#'s 22 and 29 are like my childhood trees. We wnylib Dec 2019 #83
Holidays seemed to last forever. We had 2 weeks wnylib Dec 2019 #84
Every one of those pictures brings back a bad or sad memory. n/t SpankMe Dec 2019 #85
All the comments about toxic this and dangerous that make me soldierant Dec 2019 #88
I bet mom really appreciated the gift of a .... reACTIONary Dec 2019 #89
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