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In reply to the discussion: 48 years. 9 months...and now I am a widow [View all]BonnieJW
(2,265 posts)Also 48 years, three beautiful daughters, four grandchildren. My husband was sitting on the sofa watching TV when I came home from work. The only reason I knew something was wrong was he didn't answer when I said Hi. I'll never know what happened since an autopsy isn't performed if you die at home and there is no sign of violence or foul play. His doctor said it must have been either a stroke or heart attack, but the doctor was shocked since my husband had a complete physical the previous month and all his tests came back showing he was in good health.
You're right about your husband not wanting to live in a diminished state; neither would my husband. He went exactly as he would have wanted to go: sitting in his home, watching the golf channel, waiting for me to come home and have dinner with him.
I know you are grieving, but I hope it will soon be gentled by wonderful memories of your time together.
Peace and stay well for your family.