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calimary

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35. That used to bother me, BIG-TIME! The label "coed."
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:42 PM
Nov 2017

There was even a Barbie outfit called "Cutie Coed." "Former Uni-High Coed Found..." - that was a headline in the local paper after what I believe was a rape story. I didn't even read it. I was stopped, dead in my tracks, by the headline. "COED"? What the fuck is THAT? Is that a thing? If I'm female and I'm in that school or in this community taking note of me in that school, I'm now a THING?

When I first got into radio, professionally, I landed my first several jobs simply because the station needed to "check the box", acknowledging that they'd hired somebody outside the norm (which was always automatically presumed to be "male" and "white&quot . And I'd come out of four years of college radio with actual broadcast experience, and an official FCC 3rd-class license with a broadcast endorsement, which you needed back then, in order to handle the equipment and engineer for yourself and turn the transmitter on in the morning or turn it off at night and note it in the official log, and for which you had to study and take a test at the FCC offices in downtown L.A. so you knew what meter readings were and the difference between AM and FM and other stuff like that. (Amplitude modulation and frequency modulation - THERE! I still remember that much! LOL) So I got right in.

But I remember, while still in college, with all that actual broadcast experience, going to the local CBS offices to apply for a job (that I naively hoped would lead me to one of their broadcast properties) and being promptly directed to go down the hall and report to a particular room to take a typing test.

I'm always surprised that even some of the most well-meaning men are surprised. Squinch Nov 2017 #1
As a man, I can tell you Plucketeer Nov 2017 #6
Privilege is blinding. Iggo Nov 2017 #2
Wow, this is an epic post - thank you! OceanChick Nov 2017 #3
I heard the same thing True Blue American Nov 2017 #9
I'm glad you confronted that maintenance guy raccoon Nov 2017 #26
Thank you LittleGirl Nov 2017 #30
Welcome to DU, OceanChick! calimary Nov 2017 #33
Nicely summarized. krispos42 Nov 2017 #4
Agreed, an EPIC POST, Bright. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #5
can't express how much I love this post librechik Nov 2017 #7
Thank you for this. crosinski Nov 2017 #8
Marvelously written post! Habibi Nov 2017 #10
By all means. Share any way you wish. n/t TygrBright Nov 2017 #13
I'm sharing it too, TygrBright radical noodle Nov 2017 #16
Well-said, Bright. volstork Nov 2017 #11
I'm 72 HeiressofBickworth Nov 2017 #12
On the nose. Those of us who came of age in the 50's and 60's remember. annabanana Nov 2017 #28
That used to bother me, BIG-TIME! The label "coed." calimary Nov 2017 #35
Stewardess HeiressofBickworth Nov 2017 #41
Absolutely Great Leith Nov 2017 #14
It ain't dead. (Patriarchy). zentrum Nov 2017 #15
No. It ain't dead. Not by a long shot. calimary Nov 2017 #37
Amen Soph0571 Nov 2017 #17
Yes! k&r DesertRat Nov 2017 #18
Excellent post, but I just have to say this... marcopolo63 Nov 2017 #19
Hah! n/t TygrBright Nov 2017 #20
Welcome to DU, marcopolo63! calimary Nov 2017 #38
Thanks for the greeting Calimary! marcopolo63 Nov 2017 #40
Heard. K&R, nt. druidity33 Nov 2017 #21
Hugs to you, Bright Hekate Nov 2017 #22
LOVE this post RandomAccess Nov 2017 #23
Women I know are so profoundly angry at the LuckyLib Nov 2017 #24
Damn. That was righteous. nolabear Nov 2017 #25
Wonderful description. annabanana Nov 2017 #27
Good one. cachukis Nov 2017 #29
Well said coeur_de_lion Nov 2017 #31
Fantasy RussBLib Nov 2017 #32
I hope you don't mind that I homegirl Nov 2017 #34
Exactly. ismnotwasm Nov 2017 #36
This is a WONDERFUL post, TygrBright. calimary Nov 2017 #39
Excellent post, TygrBright! smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #42
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