Could we please stop with the "no woman wants to see a dick" - it's consent [View all]
The issue isn't "weenie waving" (btw it's called a penis) ... the issue is, has been and always will be consent.
I'm a grown ass woman and I am not going to have other women say "no woman wants to see a dick" without pushing back. It's " no woman (or any person) wants to see a dick (or other body part unsolicited or without consent)".
Stop with "penises are ugly". Maybe to you they are, maybe to many they are...I find some to be sexy. There are some men whose penises I never want to see, but there are a handful I wouldn't mind checking out. [there is a reason dick prints and gray sweatpants are a "thing" and it's not just for gay men]. I don't particularly find the vulva attractive and not a fan of watching women masturbate, but that's me. I know that a whole bunch of people do. The point is whether you solicit the image or give consent to viewing it.
Stop with "no woman wants to see a man jerk off". Not gonna lie, if I want to see it, it's sexy. Don't kink-shame me or my voyeuristic fantasies.
The issue is CONSENT.
Also, I will throw in the issue is also context. At a casting call or office party ... The topic of "hey want to watch me masturbate" should not be brought up. Your boss, co-worker, stranger on the street should not be even asking.... no matter how attractive his penis may be to you.
Now on a date or in a relationship...these questions can be and should be explored.
The conversation we, as adults, should be having is why some people think it's ok to whip out body parts in a sexual manner in non-sexual settings. The conversation should not be about whether those body parts are inherently ugly or no one wants to see them.
Can we focus on how we got to a point where this is happening?
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