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http://johnpavlovitz.com/2017/03/15/62-million-reasons-im-not-the-same-anymore/62 Million Reasons Im Not the Same Anymore
March 15, 2017 / John Pavlovitz
Some people tell me that Ive changed; that Ive become more confrontational and irritable, that I am less tolerant of disagreement now. They say that I seem angrier, that Im more political. They tell me that Im not the gentle, loving soul I once was and they regularly click their tongues against the roof of their mouths in judgment, lamenting the person they say I used to be.
I could argue with their assessment, but in the interest of time Ill just go ahead and concede. In fact, Ill tell them precisely when the change they sense actually began. It began when 62 million people in this country voted for the man who spoke these words, to be our President:
I moved on her, actually. You know, she was down on Palm Beach. I moved on her, and I failed. Ill admit it.
I did try and f*ck her. She was married.I moved on her very heavily. In fact, I took her out furniture shopping.
She wanted to get some furniture. I said, Ill show you where they have some nice furniture. I took her out furniture
I moved on her like a bitch. But I couldnt get there. And she was married. Then all of a sudden I see her, shes now got the big phony tits and everything. Shes totally changed her look.
Yeah, thats her. With the gold. I better use some Tic Tacs just in case I start kissing her. You know, Im automatically attracted to beautiful I just start kissing them. Its like a magnet. Just kiss. I dont even wait. And when youre a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab em by the p*ssy. You can do anything.
I did try and f*ck her. She was married.I moved on her very heavily. In fact, I took her out furniture shopping.
She wanted to get some furniture. I said, Ill show you where they have some nice furniture. I took her out furniture
I moved on her like a bitch. But I couldnt get there. And she was married. Then all of a sudden I see her, shes now got the big phony tits and everything. Shes totally changed her look.
Yeah, thats her. With the gold. I better use some Tic Tacs just in case I start kissing her. You know, Im automatically attracted to beautiful I just start kissing them. Its like a magnet. Just kiss. I dont even wait. And when youre a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab em by the p*ssy. You can do anything.
There were plenty of moments before and since of course, but looking back this was a pivot pointone that changed me irrevocably. It made me feel estranged around people I used to feel at home with and it derailed my hope that decency would prevail. And so in many ways this was the moment of my emancipation from feeling obligated to make nice with them; because despite his woefully malignant words and everything they pointed to about his character, his predatory behavior, his misogyny, his indecency, his infidelity, his disregard for the humanity of women, 62 million adults, many of them professed Christians essentially said This is my guy.
And if you were among those who said it, you can justify it or rationalize it away or spin it any way you wantand Ill politely but unapologetically tell you youre full of it. You can pile every real or imagined boogeyman in front of me as a reasonable defense, but at the end of the day you elevated the man who said these words and was guilty of this behavior to the highest office in our country, awarding him the greatest powerand that is solely on you. I will not share the blame with my silence.
As for me, I know who I am and what I stand for, and it could never be this. So confrontational or not, irritable or not, less tolerant or not, angrier or not, political or not, this is who I am now. I can sleep at night knowing I didnt co-sign this, I am still not okay with itand honestly, Im not okay with those who are okay with it.
And regardless of how uncomfortable it may make some people, Im fully comfortable with my holy discontent right now, and so all the tone policing and shame-throwing and wrist-slapping in the world isnt going to deter me or silence me or move me from this path of most resistance. He said what he said, he was rewarded despite having said it, and I have been fundamentally altered and theres nothing I can do about it now but speak the words I feel called to speak.
So yes, I suppose I have changed, and there are about 62 million reasons why. Id have preferred not to have to have witnessed these days at all or to feel this way about so many people I live with or alongside. Id have preferred that so many of my Christian brothers and sisters didnt elevate such malevolence. Id prefer to be the same person I used to be but thats not going to happen.
Were both just going to have to get used to it.
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The interesting part is that so many of them praised him for "telling it like it is"
bigbrother05
Mar 2017
#6
I had some issues reconciling people's vote for W - trying to keep politics out of relationships.
CrispyQ
Mar 2017
#12
Yep, it crossed a line. I can't make nice with someone who votes for fascists. nt
SunSeeker
Mar 2017
#13
Yes, indeed. The woman-hating demonstrated by this buffoon is amazing. That it reflected
LuckyLib
Mar 2017
#19
FoxNews induced dementia is a thing, and it is a pandemic in rural areas
Fast Walker 52
Mar 2017
#45
Some of the nicest, warmest, kindest people thought Adolf would rebuild Germany.
byronius
Mar 2017
#33