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pnwmom

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Sun Jun 19, 2016, 03:40 PM Jun 2016

"It could have happened to anyone." Mom shares photos of son in spot where gator killed [View all]

another little boy, Lane Graves.

They left less than half an hour before Lane was attacked and killed by the alligator at Disney's Grand Floridian resort.

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/mom-shares-pics-of-son-playing-where-gator-later-killed-lane-graves-w210462

It could have happened to anyone. That is what Jennifer Venditti Roye was hoping to show when she shared a photo of her son Channing, 3, playing in the Seven Seas Lagoon taken just hours before 2-year-old Lane Graves was dragged underwater by an alligator in nearly the exact same spot.

“I’ve seen posts criticizing the parents,” the Madison, Mississippi–based mom wrote on Facebook Wednesday, June 15. “I can assure you alligators were not on my mind at all when Channing was in the water. It’s a tiny beach, surrounded by pools, water slides, a restaurant a fire pit. I can’t conceive that an alligator would be in such a busy, small space. #judgelesspraymore.”

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“It seemed like such a safe place,” Venditti Roye — who is also mom to Brooklyn, 6, and Noble, 4 — tells Us. “We were there from 5:00 until 8:45 p.m. right before [Lane was grabbed]. I sat and ate at a picnic table while Channing ran back and forth to the water. We were taking selfies right down there by the water.”

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The stay-at-home mom hopes people will stop judging the Graves family. “You need to get on their knees and pray instead of pointing fingers at these parents,” she tells Us. “I don’t know what bubble you are living in that you think this tragedy could not happen to you.”

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They were in Disneyland. The only 'gator you expect is a 'croc with a clock' inside . . . Journeyman Jun 2016 #1
Exactly. They're paying through the nose for pretend risks, not real ones. nt pnwmom Jun 2016 #2
That photo makes the point. period. cali Jun 2016 #3
Right. "No swimming" doesn't mean "watch out for alligators" -- to most people. pnwmom Jun 2016 #4
It sure doesn't to me. I wouldn't have thought twice about cali Jun 2016 #6
The only time I've been in Florida, the mobile home park I was in had a lake in the middle. . . . Journeyman Jun 2016 #11
+1 ffr Jun 2016 #28
don't forget they also truckedin a sandy beach and enticed people to use it with events, like hollysmom Jun 2016 #103
An alligator warning sign would have prevented this, because the parents would not have tblue37 Jun 2016 #19
Possibly true, but Florida's a big state with alligators ffr Jun 2016 #33
And then the snakes, spiders, bears, birds, crocodiles invading the Everglades, poisonous plants, RKP5637 Jun 2016 #68
Good luck convincing the lynch mob on here of that! ffr Jun 2016 #76
and mud instead of the nice sandy beach they put in would have kept the kids out of the water. hollysmom Jun 2016 #104
It was a family resort with a manmade lake and an inviting manmade white sand beach tblue37 Jun 2016 #96
excellent reply, too bad the parent blamers are not replying to it. hollysmom Jun 2016 #106
They apparently do not read any of the posts in the threads they post their tblue37 Jun 2016 #108
Signs only work if people actually bother to read them and even then it's a coin toss cstanleytech Jun 2016 #35
If there had been signs, and the parents had ignored them Mariana Jun 2016 #77
You mean like how Stefaan Van Turnhout obeyed similar signs? cstanleytech Jun 2016 #82
Don't bet on that hobbit709 Jun 2016 #59
History - It could not have happened to me. ffr Jun 2016 #5
You've been to Florida several times. This family from Nebraska hadn't. pnwmom Jun 2016 #7
I'm confused by your analogy. ffr Jun 2016 #12
Well, you're just so much smarter than they are. pnwmom Jun 2016 #14
Don't go ad Hominem on me! ffr Jun 2016 #21
Disney failed in its legal obligation to warn them of a risk that wasn't obvious pnwmom Jun 2016 #27
So does this mean that a resort located right on the beach in Hawaii with its cstanleytech Jun 2016 #37
Sharks are in all the oceans. Alligators are not universal in man made ponds pnwmom Jun 2016 #43
You keep harping on this man-made thing melman Jun 2016 #52
They don't. But many tourists, including this family from Nebraska, pnwmom Jun 2016 #54
So Disney is at fault for people not educating themselves that Florida has alligators? cstanleytech Jun 2016 #55
Disney is at fault for not disclosing a non-obvious risk. nt pnwmom Jun 2016 #58
I agree, in a theme park like Disney, signage should have been there because many people are naive RKP5637 Jun 2016 #70
We've covered this. Alligators are an ambush predator ffr Jun 2016 #74
It is the owner's legal duty to warn guests of of non-obvious dangers pnwmom Jun 2016 #79
Disney is at fault for inviting children to play near lethal wild animals. Doremus Jun 2016 #116
Not necessarily. cstanleytech Jun 2016 #118
Trying to defend the indefensible Doremus Jun 2016 #124
No, merely pointing out that Disney does have a potential defense under the law itself cstanleytech Jun 2016 #125
That argument only works if Disney specifically made a claim to keep out alligators cstanleytech Jun 2016 #53
Disney resort had a legal obligation to disclose any risk that wasn't obvious. pnwmom Jun 2016 #57
Well we will just have to wait and see then, my money is on disney prevailing in the end cstanleytech Jun 2016 #61
I think Disney will want this to be cleared up and will pay. ffr Jun 2016 #75
what's with the lame ass comparisons ? JI7 Jun 2016 #30
what a lame comparison JI7 Jun 2016 #25
I couldn't disagree more. This isn't the Ding Darling Preserve on Sanibel cali Jun 2016 #9
I couldn't disagree with you more ffr Jun 2016 #15
Lots of people are naive. Posting signs that spelled out that there are alligators cali Jun 2016 #23
And the fact that people were warning them shows that it was something many did not expect to see JI7 Jun 2016 #32
But the state parks and national forests in Florida DO post alligator warning signs. pnwmom Jun 2016 #44
Then you're advocating they post signs everywhere ffr Jun 2016 #47
I'm saying at the very least that they should have done what they FINALLY did: pnwmom Jun 2016 #51
If Disney can't handle keeping its customers safe from predatory alligators, blue neen Jun 2016 #80
Amen. WhisCo Jun 2016 #98
Disney apparently already had signs posted. They just didn't say anything about alligators. fishwax Jun 2016 #91
Perfectly stated, and my thought as well. phylny Jun 2016 #97
at this point I have to ask if you are a Disney employee, you seem so hollysmom Jun 2016 #107
I'm sorry, your post doesn't warrant a response. ffr Jun 2016 #109
Disney sells family safe resort. This family wasn't on a swamp tour. Gormy Cuss Jun 2016 #20
Damn right. I don't understand -- at all -- the self-righteous victim blaming going on here ... Hekate Jun 2016 #39
Fallacy ad populum ffr Jun 2016 #71
I have learned from DU's outdoors' culture kentauros Jun 2016 #123
Wrong. They do post signs in Cancun and people have been attacked there. suffragette Jun 2016 #38
So? At least whoever owned that beach warned the visitor of the risk. pnwmom Jun 2016 #46
I'm with you on this. I was countering the other poster's erroneous point. suffragette Jun 2016 #78
Not at Club Med where I've stayed. You could walk right into the lagoon ffr Jun 2016 #50
They should follow the example of elsewhere in Cancun and add them. suffragette Jun 2016 #81
My favorite is, "If attacked, seek immediate medical attention." pangaia Jun 2016 #56
so much self satisfaction going on here. Most people when they go on vacationare trusting the place hollysmom Jun 2016 #105
Smug sense of superiority on full display. Compassion missing completely. CBGLuthier Jun 2016 #122
It didn't just say 'No Swimming' melman Jun 2016 #8
That's not the location in the photos the mother posted. pnwmom Jun 2016 #10
Disney is at fault malaise Jun 2016 #13
I hope not. Disneyland shouldn't need to post signs for biting flies too. ffr Jun 2016 #16
FFS n/t malaise Jun 2016 #18
... ffr Jun 2016 #22
Your reasoning is the kind used by people who wanted to ban warnings on cigarettes. n/t pnwmom Jun 2016 #31
Define how your analogy fits this argument? ffr Jun 2016 #45
Aren't you special Hekate Jun 2016 #40
You too. ffr Jun 2016 #42
Staying at a resort where you can be eaten Rosa Luxemburg Jun 2016 #66
pointing out the logical fallacies of others, how do you rationalize the two you've made in this on LanternWaste Jun 2016 #99
Which are??? ffr Jun 2016 #100
dude rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #101
Is this your attempt at doing a Straw Man argument? ffr Jun 2016 #111
tell you what we will see how many millions rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #112
Who doesn't appear to know what a Straw Man argument is? ffr Jun 2016 #114
There there my mad bro rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #117
Ad hominum attack on me now ffr Jun 2016 #120
It's spelled "hominem" rjsquirrel Jun 2016 #121
I agree, Disney is at fault Rosa Luxemburg Jun 2016 #65
Here is the actual picture: tblue37 Jun 2016 #17
Looks like alligator habitat to me ffr Jun 2016 #24
Well goody for you Separation Jun 2016 #26
Thanks for the photos. The comments about the "sanctimommies" were good, too. pnwmom Jun 2016 #29
Are there normally alligators in that lagoon? IronLionZion Jun 2016 #34
Florida Wildlife Conservation Commission comment ffr Jun 2016 #41
At the very least, they should have had alligator warning signs instead of pnwmom Jun 2016 #48
No question there and it's not required by law ffr Jun 2016 #62
No. The family that posted the pictures at the OP was a DIFFERENT family. pnwmom Jun 2016 #63
yes Rosa Luxemburg Jun 2016 #69
Following Toddler's Death, New Disney Signs Warn of Alligators IronLionZion Jun 2016 #87
Thanks for posting this. Yes, they were negligent, and they know it. n/t pnwmom Jun 2016 #88
This sign is perfect Quayblue Jun 2016 #90
Some DUers are against posting signs for some reason IronLionZion Jun 2016 #92
I've watched DUers for a while now. Quayblue Jun 2016 #93
That's the best way to keep your sanity around here IronLionZion Jun 2016 #94
Indeed Quayblue Jun 2016 #95
If Disney knew, then they should have signs IronLionZion Jun 2016 #60
You should help them post signs then ffr Jun 2016 #67
I don't understand your position on this IronLionZion Jun 2016 #83
Disney’s policy about warning signs is about to change IronLionZion Jun 2016 #85
The signs include pictures of alligators, which would be understandable pnwmom Jun 2016 #89
Bottom line: Whether you agree that Disney should have posted TheDebbieDee Jun 2016 #36
This family has suffered a terrible wound that will never heal, pnwmom Jun 2016 #49
Agreed. underpants Jun 2016 #64
It's just horrible. They went there to have a good time and instead it was a tragedy. Yes, they will RKP5637 Jun 2016 #72
Same here. Every time I think of it I get unnerved. Also, whenever I'm in Florida, I take a RKP5637 Jun 2016 #73
Same here. I can't stop thinking about it. It is so sad and so horrifyingly awful. tblue37 Jun 2016 #102
All about alligators - highlights from the coloring book for children ffr Jun 2016 #84
Disney should have given that coloring book to all its guests. pnwmom Jun 2016 #86
Gators can move very quickly and the parents were not at fault here Gothmog Jun 2016 #110
Parent shaming aside, how would you have handled the same situation? ffr Jun 2016 #113
I have seen different reports Gothmog Jun 2016 #115
I'll leave this to your deductive thought then ffr Jun 2016 #119
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