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In reply to the discussion: My family is (most likely) in danger of a known sex offender [View all]Evergreen Emerald
(13,069 posts)And speak to the deputy who handles the sex offender registration. Tell him what is going on. The deputies can pay him a visit. And can give you information and advice. Find out if he is on Department of Corrections supervision--he may not be, but if he is, talking to a minor is a violation that will stick him back in prison.
2. He is grooming the family. Getting the dog to know him, talking to the child so he will not be a stranger. It is insidious and sex offenders are really really good at it. I am glad you guys are aware of it. But, do not sit on your hands. It is important that you address this. Do not take no for an answer. Be assertive.
3. Regarding the police who responded: if you do not like what they said, or believe they were dismissive, call their supervisor and tell them what happened. Even if they do nothing now, they at least have warning. Tell them you want a police report written up. You want a record of it. Sometimes it is easier for them to make excuses rather than write a report. Go up the chain.
4. Call the local victim advocate agency. Tell them what is going on and ask if there is a anti-harassment order you can get. If they don't know, go to the courthouse and fill out a motion for one. You can get his information on line, if not from the sheriff's office. Be sure to list the grooming behavior and his history.
Some might think this is over-responding. It is not. If you get no response...go to the media.
Of course this is just my opinion.