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In reply to the discussion: The chilling effect of misogynistic trolls [View all]seabeyond
(110,159 posts)say the behavior out loud, cause THAT is offensive. example. du is all for cheering flynt. BUT... state three things he did or said, and that offends that same crowd, that wallows in his filth. now. we must educate. but we must wrap the garbage and abuse up all pretty, in a little bow, so it is easily disgested. and yes...
tone matters.
and yes. a long time duer can tell a feminist she just needs to get laid. but... that long time feminist is not allowed to be pissed. she must address nicely.
i have also been told passive aggressive is civil. truth? not so much
and just so much more.
any thread that is a womans issue, you will see the same old men and others, jump in and purely derail the discussion that is anything but what the thread is about.