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In reply to the discussion: When Does Saying No, And Giving In, Become A Yes? [View all]Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)58. There would probably have been ignoramuses wanting to high-five you
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as though your experience was somehow something to envy. Kind of like the reaction from idiots when a female schoolteacher rapes a 15 or 16 year old boy, when they say something like how lucky the kid was.
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There are other reasons to be with a woman than to fuck or to parse the legal consequences.
rug
Jun 2014
#83
Interesting how you seem more concerned with your own future than with the woman's.
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#17
Listen to yourself, would you tell a woman she should take a mans feelings into consideration
dilby
Jun 2014
#33
Umm, how is that first question even serious? Of course I would tell a woman...
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#36
I'm not here to debate you on casual sex. I seriously don't give a shit about your sex life.
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#41
I don't think what I do is awesome, but if someone wants to throw shit in my face
dilby
Jun 2014
#128
It's not about putting one person's feelings first. Don't fabricate your oppositions argument.
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#62
What does it mean when in the process of only doing something for yourself you help someone else?
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#78
Just a recap: You date people only for sex, you don't care about other's feelings...
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#84
Why do you feel the need to impose your own sexual conquests on this discussion?
Gravitycollapse
Jun 2014
#88
Yikes. I honestly hope you're just doing a poor job of expressing yourself
RufusTFirefly
Jun 2014
#44
i think it's because there is a huge range of possibility b/w trying to talk her into it and
fishwax
Jun 2014
#126
So if one party says "no" at first, but moves on to an unenthusiastic "OK fine, let's make love",
Nye Bevan
Jun 2014
#14
"I think we tend to focus too much on what constitutes illegality rather than the unethical."
nomorenomore08
Jun 2014
#21
In most cases, yeah, sure. If only because it would be nigh unprovable in court. n/t
nomorenomore08
Jun 2014
#57
So, you think this person was in a position to give fully-informed consent? (nt)
Nye Bevan
Jun 2014
#66
I'm saying you instantly jumped to you were raped, without knowing enough about what happened.
newcriminal
Jun 2014
#68
I know that the poster was drunk, had suffered a blow to the head, and was groggy.
Nye Bevan
Jun 2014
#69
Not based on what you've stated in your post she didn't. So no, you shouldn't have pressed charges.
cui bono
Jun 2014
#92
If someone demands my wallet and threatens me, and I give in, it's still robbery.
arcane1
Jun 2014
#28
Certainly, if someone agrees to have sex at knife-point, that is definitely rape (nt)
Nye Bevan
Jun 2014
#53
Or they think if they jiggle the dodgy vending machine around it'll give them a Coke after all. nt
LeftyMom
Jun 2014
#72
Unfortunately, our culture teaches men that it is ok to badger women until their no changes.
KitSileya
Jun 2014
#93