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Managing Privilege [View all] MrScorpio Mar 2014 OP
this could be pinned to the top of a few places around here Kali Mar 2014 #1
Like it, but I wish the stuff under 1 was just added to the stuff under 2. Gidney N Cloyd Mar 2014 #2
I'm sure you understand that I appreciate the power of "Shut the fuck up…" MrScorpio Mar 2014 #3
There's not a lot I understand around here. Gidney N Cloyd Mar 2014 #5
I agree. Well stated. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #9
STFU is a part of it gollygee Mar 2014 #10
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Oh the poor, abused straight, white male… My heart bleeds for your dismay MrScorpio Mar 2014 #67
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+1 freshwest Mar 2014 #292
well, one has to stop talking before one can listen. too many people decide to jump in guns blazing geek tragedy Mar 2014 #20
Yes, It's a form of a monologue. Not a dialogue. n/t freshwest Mar 2014 #293
Mr. Scorpio, you are to be commended brush Mar 2014 #4
Damn good job Mr. scorpio! bravenak Mar 2014 #6
I'm KICKING this each and everyday ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #7
I'm kicking it with my afternoon tea. Heidi Mar 2014 #17
Now, we just need someone to KICK this with their evening adult beverage of choice. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #21
Hmmm... Heidi Mar 2014 #22
Its not a beverage I prefer, but before I "mellow and reflect" on my day and in my own way... Anansi1171 Mar 2014 #29
Your turn to kick it! Heidi Mar 2014 #90
11 PM west coast time. Not sure about the drink, unless you call Ensure an adult beverage... n/t freshwest Mar 2014 #294
I'm kicking it with my morning java. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #23
Morning', sunshine! Heidi Mar 2014 #24
and ... Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #25
Here's a recipe. Heidi Mar 2014 #26
I never knew it by that name but, I have eaten this many times. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #27
:yum: Heidi Mar 2014 #30
CMW is a lucky man !! Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #32
There are various kinds of speck. Heidi Mar 2014 #33
That sounds wonderfully delicious. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #35
You know, Heidi, that sounds pretty darn good. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #205
Leather Britches title to one of my favorite fiddle tunes.. 2banon Mar 2014 #64
Tuesday Morning Privilege Kick for JustAnotherGen Mar 2014 #244
This is decent, but there are also some flaws. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #8
#1 ties into the last panel... MrScorpio Mar 2014 #11
I'm afraid that you've missed my point here(no offense, but.....). AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #12
Well, Joe, this is where there's a problem. MrScorpio Mar 2014 #13
And you miss the point again. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #14
Funny you should mention Manning... MrScorpio Mar 2014 #40
On reverse racism.....I don't believe in it. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #44
So you're taking a position that racism in America is not systemic and institutional, right? MrScorpio Mar 2014 #45
That's not what I said. At all. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #46
If you read early on, you'll notice that I said that POCs can exhibit prejudice or bigotry MrScorpio Mar 2014 #48
Still doesn't disprove my point, TBH. Not at all. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #49
Alright, then consider this: MrScorpio Mar 2014 #57
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So if Farrakhan and Kambon are bigoted to one White person, they're bigoted to all White people? MrScorpio Mar 2014 #60
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Well then, why are subjecting yourself to this abuse? MrScorpio Mar 2014 #68
"The Powah"? Really dude...really??? U4ikLefty Mar 2014 #70
He's gone now. MrScorpio Mar 2014 #71
Your OP is like flypaper Cirque du So-What Mar 2014 #72
I alerted to one too gollygee Mar 2014 #86
Oh thank goodness. U4ikLefty Mar 2014 #73
Yeah, this guy seems like he was a fucking idiot, TBH..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #209
You're not getting it, still. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #77
"None." is the correct answer, which is precisely why they can't possible BE racist in America. MrScorpio Mar 2014 #78
"It's not a difficult concept to understand." Wasn't difficult to debunk, either. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #79
As far as I'm concerned, they're confusing racism with bigotry and prejudice as well MrScorpio Mar 2014 #81
"The terms have become muddled." Yes, but not by who you think! AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #82
Well, lookie here... MrScorpio Mar 2014 #84
You have handled yourself well in the above dialogue, Bravo ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #184
"only to expose (if he were honest) that his own definition doesn't work for him." AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #192
No ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #196
"In this country" is a pretty critical distinction here eridani Mar 2014 #62
That is correct MrScorpio Mar 2014 #63
"Japanese people living in this country can't be racist." I'm sorry, but that is PURE baloney. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #83
A woman who teaches anti-racism seminars gollygee Mar 2014 #87
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*Some* People of Color may. Certainly not all, though. Not even a majority. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #91
Speaking for the majority of "people of color" now are we….maybe you should read the OP again? bettyellen Mar 2014 #93
Speaking from personal experience. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #95
Seems you want to elevate personal bigotry as a concern higher than systemic racism? bettyellen Mar 2014 #97
"Seems you want to elevate personal bigotry as a concern higher than systemic racism?" Not at all. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #106
It seems you didn't learn a single thing from the OP-w/your OT about personal bigotry against white bettyellen Mar 2014 #107
"It is a handy life skill- not imagining everything is about me me me." AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #108
You like to make claims about what most people think. gollygee Mar 2014 #110
"It's a Fox News talking point but not very convincing." How bloody ironic that is..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #112
Nobody said that black people are angry at all white people gollygee Mar 2014 #113
You are REALLY missing the point. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #114
I am not in a small "fringe" of people gollygee Mar 2014 #117
"I am not in a small "fringe" of people" Yes, you are. No matter how many friends you claim to have. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #118
Hold up- you haven't realized it's YOU with the fringe opinion here? Seriously? bettyellen Mar 2014 #152
Because it's true. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #170
this is the kind of "nuance" that informs the teabagger woldview, and it is not mainstream liberal bettyellen Mar 2014 #182
Your opinion seems to quite strongly color your interpretation of what I have said. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #183
oh dear, you really need this OP more than anyone here, LOL. bettyellen Mar 2014 #188
"since you think you know better than every African American on DU". Not true. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #191
It's true… You should apologize MrScorpio Mar 2014 #198
I'm afraid there's really nothing else to say. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #202
If I said it once, I've said it fifty times... MrScorpio Mar 2014 #217
all this boils down to is you want to use the words bigot and racist interchanagably.... bettyellen Mar 2014 #219
You still going at it? Wow. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #241
What you seem to ignore is that if you have a minority opinion you must change it. AngryAmish Mar 2014 #247
Poor baby - so opressed by liberal group think! Maybe the PC police will come visit him, LOL. bettyellen Mar 2014 #260
your arguments are completely based on an non-issue, i.e. "kinda rare", yet you persist. bettyellen Mar 2014 #151
Could that be because ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #259
Yep, it's a completely selfish POV, that so easily dismisses the knowledge and experiences of bettyellen Mar 2014 #261
That is the chief complaint that POC ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #264
Hell yes, we see folk here who have absolutely no knowledge or experience with the stuggles of bettyellen Mar 2014 #265
In the late 80's ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #273
I came across the sexist version of this crap working in local politics, it was hard for me to see bettyellen Mar 2014 #277
I think what has many so shook ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #279
And this. bravenak Mar 2014 #285
Wow ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #286
It is a game of "me first", and I keep saying "what about someone else?" I think part of the reason bettyellen Mar 2014 #287
And that's exactly it ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #288
yep, I worked with one exceptional personal who was radically different, truly open minded..... bettyellen Mar 2014 #289
Does that mean that David Duke would stop being a racist shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #96
Yes, because he would have no social, political or economic advantages there n/t eridani Mar 2014 #100
Really? shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #104
he'd be a bigot every moment of every flight,hope that helps. bettyellen Mar 2014 #105
"Racist" isn't really a noun gollygee Mar 2014 #111
So David Duke's not a racist at all? shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #115
He's a bigot gollygee Mar 2014 #116
Golly! shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #187
Dictionaries simply reflect public usage gollygee Mar 2014 #190
Wowzee! shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #197
Whatamabobs, perhaps? I dunno. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #203
Those aren't parallel to "racist" gollygee Mar 2014 #246
Grammatically they are shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #290
Racism is not about personal attitudes, but about institutional structures. eridani Mar 2014 #119
It's about both, actually.(yes, that is a fact, btw) AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #193
Absolutely not. Because that's not how non-structural versions of racism work. nt AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #194
I think you really should 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #157
You are still equating "privilege" with "wealth". VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #208
Which makes sense, TBH. nt AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #210
No it doesn't unless you are redefining the word... VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #212
That mentally ill, queer, non-normative internally gender identified person, Nye Bevan Mar 2014 #15
Kick, kick, kick! Heidi Mar 2014 #16
Holy crap! Baitball Blogger Mar 2014 #18
1-5 are things that are pretty good practices in general geek tragedy Mar 2014 #19
Can't argue with that, at least. I just wish it had been done better, that's all. nt AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #50
Finally, the perfect mix of sanctimony and self-congratulatory gallantry. Dreamer Tatum Mar 2014 #28
There was absolutely nothing about the graphic that suggested you should hate yourself. Heidi Mar 2014 #31
My what an interesting reply! Rex Mar 2014 #34
Look, you're my friend, and that kind of hostility is not cool. Nye Bevan Mar 2014 #47
I don't think that was quite the intention..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #53
Many people who enjoy martyring themselves for fun often infer self-hatred from where none exists... LanternWaste Mar 2014 #144
I honestly don't think she is.....not the impression I got, anyway. nt AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #204
"cisgender"? Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #36
Never mind! Found it! Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #37
It's a term used for people who identify themselves by their outward gender appearance MrScorpio Mar 2014 #38
Thanks! Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #39
So cisgender... JJChambers Mar 2014 #41
That's correct MrScorpio Mar 2014 #42
Makes sense. Thanks. JJChambers Mar 2014 #43
hey Skittles Mar 2014 #51
And you are absolutely correct! MrScorpio Mar 2014 #52
I do know, however Skittles Mar 2014 #59
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HAHAHAH!!!! MrScorpio Mar 2014 #75
awwwwwwwww Skittles Mar 2014 #80
Back so fast? U4ikLefty Mar 2014 #76
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I've hired a privilege manager to handle this for me. n/t Silent3 Mar 2014 #55
are you part of the 1%, Silent3? Skittles Mar 2014 #66
Had to get a couple of chuckles off at that. n/t AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #92
Good post Nikia Mar 2014 #56
Lunchtime (UTC +1) kick! Heidi Mar 2014 #85
Everyone has some sort of privilege over someone else. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #94
Nope, the dead are no longer people. bettyellen Mar 2014 #98
My point is, everyone is privileged to some degree. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #102
Except the one lone person at the bottom of your own theoretical totem pole? And how does that bettyellen Mar 2014 #103
There's nothing theoretical about it. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #109
Interesting opinion... will certainly give it all the consideration it's actually worth. LanternWaste Mar 2014 #145
What is your point - exactly why is it important in terms of this discussion? bettyellen Mar 2014 #153
I've made my point. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #156
it's not a "point" unless you establish it's actually relevant here. It appears you cannot. bettyellen Mar 2014 #161
I have shaayecanaan Mar 2014 #99
Opinion and assertion phil89 Mar 2014 #101
Wow, thoughtful response. LOL. bettyellen Mar 2014 #155
This sums up some reactions here Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #120
! Heidi Mar 2014 #125
Good morning Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #130
Me, too! Heidi Mar 2014 #132
It drives me nuts Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #134
Yep. Heidi Mar 2014 #136
kinda contradicts that whole first point there hfojvt Mar 2014 #168
It's fine with me if you disagree. Heidi Mar 2014 #171
LEAVE WHITE GUYS ALONE Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #172
That's poking fun at the people who DON'T GET IT, not at people who have privilege. cyberswede Mar 2014 #180
people who love to tell other people they have privilege hfojvt Mar 2014 #240
For the last time, it's not about individual people. cyberswede Mar 2014 #256
you probably should make up your mind hfojvt Mar 2014 #257
The "them" is white people, collectively, in society. Regardless of individual situation. cyberswede Mar 2014 #258
so, again, it IS about individuals hfojvt Mar 2014 #263
Funny how you think this is all about you as an individual. bravenak Mar 2014 #267
As someone recently wrote, mockingly, in a thread ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #268
That is like, one of my favorite jokes!! bravenak Mar 2014 #269
Oh ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #274
OMG! He was being serious?? Pobrecito. bravenak Mar 2014 #275
stole MY job? hfojvt Mar 2014 #282
Thats how you made it sound sweetie. bravenak Mar 2014 #284
it's not all about me hfojvt Mar 2014 #281
I cannot believe you said that. Mitt Romney said someting similar. bravenak Mar 2014 #283
Oh my! cyberswede Mar 2014 #135
well I always wondered hfojvt Mar 2014 #165
Having the same shitty job while being a person of color is worse. nt cyberswede Mar 2014 #177
but that still ignores 60% of the data hfojvt Mar 2014 #242
Wow. Imagine how much more your life might suck Heidi Mar 2014 #179
it might hfojvt Mar 2014 #243
As long as we never have to talk about CLASS, the PTB approve of this message. nt Romulox Mar 2014 #121
There's nothing in the graphic that excludes any discussion about class privilege MrScorpio Mar 2014 #122
I guess the cartoonist just "forgot" to mention it. Ooops! nt Romulox Mar 2014 #123
I took it as piece about privilege in general MrScorpio Mar 2014 #124
But class isn't mentioned? It's a MAJOR "oversight", made time and again. nt Romulox Mar 2014 #126
But you're doing your part to bring attention to class privilege right now MrScorpio Mar 2014 #127
LOL. First off is to even acknowledge the concept. That is rarely done, and this isn't the first Romulox Mar 2014 #128
Good observation. And what else? MrScorpio Mar 2014 #129
Uh-huh. It sounds like you'd like to have a respectful exchange on the matter. Romulox Mar 2014 #138
I apologize that I've given you that impression MrScorpio Mar 2014 #158
It seems some folks feel entitled to a higher "class" Heidi Mar 2014 #176
What an odd statement. "Class" applies to People of Color as well. Things that benefit the lower Romulox Mar 2014 #255
The graphic IS missing a HUGE part of the discussion. And I believe it's not an accident. Romulox Mar 2014 #248
So, do you think that class privilege trumps race, gender or sexual orientation privilege? nt MrScorpio Mar 2014 #250
Nope. I think they work concurrently and reinforce one another. Like I've said all along. nt Romulox Mar 2014 #252
"We can't pay any attention to racism until there are no poor white people." gollygee Mar 2014 #131
Ding Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #133
Bullshit. I never said anything like that. I said "privilege" should include class. Romulox Mar 2014 #137
In every thread about racism gollygee Mar 2014 #139
Ummm, this thread is about PRIVILEGE, not "racism". This is the problem. Romulox Mar 2014 #140
They are flip sides of the same thing gollygee Mar 2014 #141
And class is central in the same way. That wasn't expressed in the cartoon. nt Romulox Mar 2014 #142
Class is an overreaching problem that is not directly related gollygee Mar 2014 #143
Again, this is a discussion of *privilege*, and therefore a discussion of class is appropriate. Romulox Mar 2014 #146
Yes there is class privilege and it is huge gollygee Mar 2014 #147
This thread is about *PRIVILEGE*. It is appropriate to discuss class privilege here. Romulox Mar 2014 #148
If you brought it up as a discussion rather than an attempt gollygee Mar 2014 #149
You make a good point. nt Romulox Mar 2014 #150
Please re-read Point 1, re: dominating the discussion and dictating the language, etc. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #159
Yep. Controlling the narrative about others' experiences, or feeling entitled to control it, Heidi Mar 2014 #162
And to explain why that is so offensive ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #164
Unfortunately, the majority of the controlling of the narrative in this case..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #207
But i have been reading you dominate this entire thread. bravenak Mar 2014 #213
" But i have been reading you dominate this entire thread." A significant number of comments..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #215
Then re read it. bravenak Mar 2014 #218
Opposing and debunking you is NOT controlling you... VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #230
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This thread is about PRIVILEGE. Is it dominated by voices of the lower class? I think not. Romulox Mar 2014 #249
whatever class you are in will ALSO be effected by your gender, race, orientation etc.... VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #229
And whatever race you are, you will ALSO be affected by class. Where is the contradiction or Romulox Mar 2014 #253
and more adversely so if you are a woman and or a minority and or homosexual..... VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #262
BINGO ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #163
Lunchtime (UTC +1). Heidi Mar 2014 #245
"every thread about racism" hfojvt Mar 2014 #167
How come you think white people should get to do all the talking about Racism? bravenak Mar 2014 #201
That's not the impression I've been getting from him, TBH. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #206
You're the one that knows more about racism than black people. bravenak Mar 2014 #211
"You're the one that knows more about racism than black people." Never implied such. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #214
You are trying to do all the talking and all the deciding. And you come from a place of privilege. bravenak Mar 2014 #216
If I may chime in... Zenlitened Mar 2014 #220
I hope it is performance art. bravenak Mar 2014 #222
THIS! thank you, B! bettyellen Mar 2014 #224
No problem. bravenak Mar 2014 #225
"We're probably at about seven bucks worth of your fifteen centses." Number23 Mar 2014 #227
Poor guy. Nobody lets him finish. bravenak Mar 2014 #236
Look below. Better make that $7.15 worth of his fifteen centses Number23 Mar 2014 #237
I thought he was done, but hell naw! bravenak Mar 2014 #239
..... AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #235
You do not always HAVE to say something, honey. bravenak Mar 2014 #238
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Really Darcy, i think you are in the wrong place to spread your bile. bravenak Mar 2014 #223
He has been escorted from the premises. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #226
So ugly. bravenak Mar 2014 #231
Very much so, but your response was excellent. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #232
A lot of name removed's on this one. bravenak Mar 2014 #234
sometimes it would be nice if we did talk about racism hfojvt Mar 2014 #166
I can't believe he called you a racist Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #169
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Welcome to DU Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #174
Oh, yeah. I'm just sure that one is a lifelong "democrat". I don't believe he's got a grandmother, Squinch Mar 2014 #185
Wait until he finds out that some of the people who work at the nursing home Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #189
"As a lifelong democrat . . . " gollygee Mar 2014 #186
Agreed. AverageJoe90 Mar 2014 #195
apparently there are parts of that choir that still need some preaching to... VanillaRhapsody Mar 2014 #233
Big K&R... daleanime Mar 2014 #154
KnR. nt tblue37 Mar 2014 #160
k&r the flypaper thread uppityperson Mar 2014 #175
LOL cyberswede Mar 2014 #178
"Racial and gender entitlement knows no class system..." Zenlitened Mar 2014 #199
"Privilege is a fact, not an insult" MrScorpio Mar 2014 #200
"White men of all classes benefit from a system based on racial and gender inequality." Number23 Mar 2014 #228
It is a truth that makes them very uncomfortable. That it has been slowly slipping away is why so bettyellen Mar 2014 #266
But understand ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #270
Winner winner chicken dinner!! bravenak Mar 2014 #276
Class is the most overriding, all-encompassing privilege that exists in America. Denial is strong! Romulox Mar 2014 #251
True ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #271
I think maybe your sentence could be edited to read... Zenlitened Mar 2014 #272
+1 ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #278
Perfectly said Number23 Mar 2014 #291
Says a white man. kwassa Mar 2014 #280
K&R Lunacee_2013 Mar 2014 #254
Always a thought-provoking post, Mr Scorpio. Sorry I'm late to the party, but here's a KnR anyway. Hekate Mar 2014 #295
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