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In reply to the discussion: For those women who think objectifying women as sex objects is OK [View all]TampaAnimusVortex
(785 posts)You posit that I am defending those who might make the statement "I'd do her" without providing context.
Also, you don't seem to ask the question about lesbians who might say "I'd do her" or gay men who say "I'd do him".
Let's see if we can provide some context to tease out the appropriate use of the phrase though...
1. Your in a scientific study of human sexuality with many other men and women who are presented random pictures of people and asked to identify if you would have sex with them based simply on the appearance... in which case, "I'd do him/her" is a valid, if not poorly phrased response.
2. Your invited over to your fiance's parents house for the first time for dinner, where after introductions.. you sit down to eat. During dinner, your finance's sibling comes home and walks in - and you find them attractive. If you were to blurt across the table "I'd do him/her"... this would be a poor choice of timing indeed.
It's all about context - and your transparent attempt to paint me as defending crude behavior is a straw man, when the reality of it is that you used too broad of a brush and tried to paint every instance of someone noticing someone elses attractive features as "Objectivication". Next time let's try to reel in that frothing reflexive attacking before thinking.