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Orrex

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195. So in your view, it's ok for her to tell people to fuck off?

Mon Dec 23, 2013, 08:14 PM

Dec 2013

And if I'm not talking about impassioned posts arguing against misogyny. If those posts are alerted-on for content, then obviously that's a problem. And that's not what I'm describing.

I'm referring instead to her aggressively personal attacks on both men and women,anyone who doesn't accept her specific and very narrow interpretation of the world. This happens again and again and has happened quite a few times in recent days, in fact, and in each case she insists that she's not attacking anyone and that she's the persecuted victim.

I've previously stated this in replies to her, so I don't mind reiterating it here.

Her hypocritical double standard might sit poorly with people regardless of the subject being debated.

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Sure has been an increase of guys picking fights with DU women. [View all] trumad Dec 2013 OP

LOL NoOneMan Dec 2013 #1

Proud to be first eh? trumad Dec 2013 #23

Its was either that or start an unnecessary meta post in GD for attention NoOneMan Dec 2013 #29

It was a GD post for attention. nt madinmaryland Dec 2013 #258

^ This ^ Atman Dec 2013 #407

What's ironic is... madinmaryland Dec 2013 #411

cause they are allowed. they are empowered. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #2

Yup. laundry_queen Dec 2013 #3

By them, are your referring to ALL men or 1 in 100,000? NoOneMan Dec 2013 #5

the men that are particpating int he behavior that was brought up. see how easy that is. oh wait.. seabeyond Dec 2013 #7

throw a rock in the air . . . nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #15

Probably referring only to the demographic referenced in the OP... LanternWaste Dec 2013 #10

Ah, but that in itself depends on a matter of perception NoOneMan Dec 2013 #22

That, or (and I find this more likely), someone in the OP's referenced demographic just looking to b LanternWaste Dec 2013 #59

That blade cuts both ways NoOneMan Dec 2013 #67

More accurately, it's just as easy for *you* to "dismiss every feminist complaint", as I feel neithe LanternWaste Dec 2013 #399

Well then I am rubber... NoOneMan Dec 2013 #414

I'm referring to something else. laundry_queen Dec 2013 #20

I think many of us would agree etherealtruth Dec 2013 #64

it's been going on for some time. PeaceNikki Dec 2013 #4

It's an old sport for poor saps who have to wait ten minutes for their "dates" to buffer. LanternWaste Dec 2013 #6

that is cute. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #9

DUzy nom! n/t ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2013 #13

.... woolldog Dec 2013 #245

Maybe the GOP has given up on reaching out to women and have decided Motown_Johnny Dec 2013 #8

Because anonymous posters would never lie about any personal information. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #110

Yep that is how it works. zeemike Dec 2013 #128

just like Operation Chaos. nt awoke_in_2003 Dec 2013 #139

It wouldn't be the first time. GoCubsGo Dec 2013 #356

I can't imagine why ...... oldhippie Dec 2013 #11

men bullying women is okay under DU community standards. geek tragedy Dec 2013 #12

And so is women bullying women. nt darkangel218 Dec 2013 #25

Sure but don't anyone pick on men, because they are always the biggest victims nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #27

I dont know about that. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #34

you were pissed men had to absorb womens health care. we disagreed. you see that as an attack, ok seabeyond Dec 2013 #43

Seabeyond, dont even go there. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #68

i will go there when you call out the women who "attacked" you. i disagreed with you over and over seabeyond Dec 2013 #73

Go there on your own. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #77

you seem to be rather abusive here in this thread. boston bean Dec 2013 #80

I am?? darkangel218 Dec 2013 #81

I'm certain your recollection is off. boston bean Dec 2013 #90

Yah, sure, lol. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #91

I was speaking to the allegation you made against me... boston bean Dec 2013 #92

I never once mentioned your name. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #94

You were speaking to me when you wrote this: boston bean Dec 2013 #97

Thought it was seabeyond, to whom i was responding. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #98

lol lol seabeyond Dec 2013 #93

Yah, lolol. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #95

Sorry, but you were out of control in that thread. Sheldon Cooper Dec 2013 #99

I had my "ass handed"? darkangel218 Dec 2013 #102

Disagreeing and proving you wrong does not equal hate and abuse. n/t tammywammy Dec 2013 #117

No one was talking/replying to you!! darkangel218 Dec 2013 #129

Two things: tammywammy Dec 2013 #131

yes, we all saw that. It was a lot of people, men and women and 90% disagreed with you... bettyellen Dec 2013 #178

Ganging up someone darkangel218 Dec 2013 #220

no. it was you continually putting out misinformation and people were giving you the correct info. seabeyond Dec 2013 #222

you had a very unpopular opinion. sorry if you can't see that. bettyellen Dec 2013 #239

So true Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #106

are we too allowed to disagree iwth the OP when it states men should not have to absorb medical cost seabeyond Dec 2013 #113

Can you provide a link Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #193

silliness. i asked you to clarify. that simple. have an issue with someone asking a question? or seabeyond Dec 2013 #202

Quite the other way around. grahamhgreen Dec 2013 #141

he said with zero explanation or substantiation nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #143

Is calling men engaging in consenting behavior with a women "scum" acceptable Hissyspit Dec 2013 #209

are the scum rapists/ cause i call the revenge porn dudes and rapists bottomfeeders. is that ok? nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #210

That's not what I was referencing. Hissyspit Dec 2013 #214

Judging people by behavior has always geek tragedy Dec 2013 #211

I guess ignorant stereotyping is, too, then. Hissyspit Dec 2013 #216

You seem very angry about someone said about geek tragedy Dec 2013 #218

"loathsome" Hissyspit Dec 2013 #227

No, liberals are allowed to take their own side geek tragedy Dec 2013 #265

Actually it's the other way around... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #293

Your post is factually false and is excuse-making for bad behavior by men. geek tragedy Dec 2013 #301

Thanks for outing yourself.. truebrit71 Dec 2013 #303

that's a relief nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #304

See what happens when you tell the truth? JustAnotherGen Dec 2013 #329

do you know the genesis of these topics? I don't. I imagine they spring from HOF board, but Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #14

This message was self-deleted by its author boston bean Dec 2013 #19

You imagine incorrectly. geek tragedy Dec 2013 #26

oh yeah. I remember that thread about the Indian campaign. Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #32

So, you can see, when something like that gets posted, and a bunch of guys geek tragedy Dec 2013 #46

did they take the side of the Indian men? It sounded more like Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #51

the comments from RQ's original post geek tragedy Dec 2013 #115

But that was taken as a personal insult by some here, who subsequently felt the need Squinch Dec 2013 #47

and yet some feel the need to school men, its no longer about discussing viewpoints or loli phabay Dec 2013 #86

I must have that person on ignore. redqueen Dec 2013 #136

"creep-shaming" Raven Dec 2013 #16

Ive been attacked mostly by women on here in the past. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #17

That makes two of us. In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #138

That makes at least 3 AAO Dec 2013 #152

Not only that In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #155

Or the standard AAO Dec 2013 #163

I, too, have been seabeyonded. CFLDem Dec 2013 #165

Well, I'm not going to call out any names AAO Dec 2013 #168

Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #169

There was a time that you'd have been tombstoned for this BS Matariki Dec 2013 #314

i often ask. as i did in a post above. then i got insulted for asking. ya. it is good to ask seabeyond Dec 2013 #203

Lmao!!! darkangel218 Dec 2013 #248

he should not have made it so easy. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #249

Is that right.. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #251

Noobs like you is why we have a Block user function here. TeamPooka Dec 2013 #315

Maybe you should clear your ignore list pintobean Dec 2013 #18

nobody on my ignore list.. trumad Dec 2013 #28

New? No. DU's very own 'mens' group has been at it for a while Ohio Joe Dec 2013 #21

+1 xulamaude Dec 2013 #76

+2 Starry Messenger Dec 2013 #232

+3 Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #300

+4 Little Star Dec 2013 #308

+5 Warpy Dec 2013 #327

Well, there is one hell of a lot of gender warring going on. Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #24

"hectoring men for one sort of perceived misbehavior of other" geek tragedy Dec 2013 #30

there are a lot of posts that make one feel being male is some sort of defect Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #36

Funny, I've never gotten that feeling from a single post, yet here I sit geek tragedy Dec 2013 #40

let's put it this way. insulting, derogatory code words toward men are accepted on here quite often Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #48

I see them, but I don't perceive them as addressing anything I do, so I am not offended, nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #49

+++ Whisp Dec 2013 #108

So you embrace your male privilege. Good for you! Orrex Dec 2013 #200

huh? nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #201

i am called a prude daily by a number of men. not to mention emotionally unstable, man hater. i had seabeyond Dec 2013 #54

all I can speak to is what I see on GD since that's where I spend 99% of my time Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #66

ok. prude has nothing to do with who i am, it is used as an insult. please do not assume you or seabeyond Dec 2013 #70

we're not all the same person. You seem to be lumping all men together in your comment above Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #78

men does not equal ALL men. obviously, if you do not do what i am speaking about you are not part seabeyond Dec 2013 #85

got it. Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #87

For years, you've come across on DU as if you are THE final word in human sexuality Schema Thing Dec 2013 #277

you perceive that is who i am. you do not like what i am saying, so you create me in that lite. seabeyond Dec 2013 #278

Unfortunately for the discussion board, what you hold dear Schema Thing Dec 2013 #279

again. this is YOUR attempt to paint me in an unfavorable light to heighten hostility. seabeyond Dec 2013 #280

I haven't noticed that at all, for some reason. MineralMan Dec 2013 #100

that tends to come from the men treestar Dec 2013 #219

Carry on. Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #45

You mean you won't be joining those who are here to educate the women in how to do Squinch Dec 2013 #53

ummm. he has consistently directed women how we should behave. so, i hardly take him seabeyond Dec 2013 #58

I try to stay out of this crap. But what the hell are you talking about? Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #71

"Haaaruuumph! It's petticoat government around here anymore!" alcibiades_mystery Dec 2013 #158

it's amazing, in a really bad way. nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #159

That's what I see. The big difference lately is that... NoOneMan Dec 2013 #33

Yeah, I remember when we used to talk about politics here. Jester Messiah Dec 2013 #96

Now, pit bulls, guns, ducks, anti-feminist men, guns, Zimmybalisms, gazing men, guns... Eleanors38 Dec 2013 #171

Or maybe even news in general... "Thrash This Thread" and the ignore list are my favorites these Purveyor Dec 2013 #224

So gender equality is not a concern of poltics? intaglio Dec 2013 #306

DING DING DING.... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #101

Good post Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #114

Hectoring? trumad Dec 2013 #118

Hectoring men? Matariki Dec 2013 #122

Yes there is. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #125

Their behavior is welcomed here, so they take full advantage. Sheldon Cooper Dec 2013 #31

This conspiracy theory has merit Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #37

Are they ogling the Seahawk fans? NoOneMan Dec 2013 #39

Their whines yesterday registered as a small earthquake Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #42

"they see the obvious pattern" NoOneMan Dec 2013 #38

maybe there is no obvious pattern. a female on DU noted in seabeyond's reply to Skinner Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #41

I've just looked at seabeyond's transparency page, and the only obvious pattern I see.... Violet_Crumble Dec 2013 #121

i told one to fuck off. he sent all the women in hof a nasty vulgar pm. was tos'ed an hour later. seabeyond Dec 2013 #126

You said 'fuck you' to polly7... Violet_Crumble Dec 2013 #130

lets break this down violet. respectfully. i am saying i did not say fuck you, to polly. seabeyond Dec 2013 #135

What a load of bullshit. polly7 Dec 2013 #142

What a load of bullshit.... stopped reading. right here. we do this ALL the time. seabeyond Dec 2013 #146

Yes, YOU do this all the time. Run away, I mean .... polly7 Dec 2013 #151

not run away. i am not putting up with insults and attacks. hence me telling you seabeyond Dec 2013 #154

Well your sexist crap was an insult - as you were told time after time and polly7 Dec 2013 #160

Hi polly7....it is a ton of sexist crap. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #253

For what it's worth, polly7, I remember the exchanges you're referring to, Marr Dec 2013 #289

It looks like she's denying that attack down-thread. pintobean Dec 2013 #406

You also used sexist language to me, and persisted when told to stop. Any man would have msanthrope Dec 2013 #422

Exactly! polly7 Dec 2013 #424

This message was self-deleted by its author boston bean Dec 2013 #236

Your post prompted me to do the same etherealtruth Dec 2013 #162

This is where a big part of the problem exists RainDog Dec 2013 #316

This is the best post in this thread Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #330

Only if one thinks the point of a message board is to talk shit about people BainsBane Dec 2013 #418

Excellent post. You left out pintobean Dec 2013 #332

i called your daughter the s word. you accuse me of that also. UNTIL you admit didnt really seabeyond Dec 2013 #342

I would call it slut shaming and an insinuation of incest. pintobean Dec 2013 #358

how selective are you? present the whole issue. present whole post. present what i was addressing seabeyond Dec 2013 #363

I linked to the OP pintobean Dec 2013 #365

let me show you the hypocrisy at the risk of pushback for "educating" skinners word i say with snark seabeyond Dec 2013 #367

You were the only person in that thread pintobean Dec 2013 #372

boobquake? ya. right. nothing about flashing with boobquake. i am schooled. but hey... shift seabeyond Dec 2013 #374

"young women everywhere plan to wear cleavage-showing clothes" pintobean Dec 2013 #375

This is how this post reads Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #368

wtf, dude. can you get any more stupid in insulting and personally attacking me out of the blue. seabeyond Dec 2013 #369

Really? Here is the "attack" and "personal attacks," he? Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #371

I'll bet it took a lot more effort for you to xulamaude Dec 2013 #378

I'm disrespectful to dirt. Can you see that I am serious? Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #380

Yes. That happened too. RainDog Dec 2013 #376

"I would've sued RQ for libel when she made the claim about supporting pedophiles." redqueen Dec 2013 #384

I'm not part of any group here RainDog Dec 2013 #393

This message was self-deleted by its author redqueen Dec 2013 #402

You clearly like to talk a lot of crap about other people BainsBane Dec 2013 #416

You are in no position to lecture anyone about behavior or civility. beevul Dec 2013 #419

No shit Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #426

The six posts that she currently had hidden deserved to be hidden Orrex Dec 2013 #123

Because seldom does a day go by when someone doesn't tell sea that they just served on a jury for Sheldon Cooper Dec 2013 #174

I've seen that claim about four times now, so maybe there's something to it Orrex Dec 2013 #180

well, this is a progressive website and when have we progressives been so nicely-nice about our CTyankee Dec 2013 #185

And I love her for that. trumad Dec 2013 #188

Yep, the old 101st Chairborne Division of DU! CTyankee Dec 2013 #190

DUzy!! freshwest Dec 2013 #263

So in your view, it's ok for her to tell people to fuck off? Orrex Dec 2013 #195

Look, I'm not her but I see her attacking misogyny where she finds it. CTyankee Dec 2013 #197

She attacks people as well as misogyny Orrex Dec 2013 #198

Well, as William Allan White once famously said... CTyankee Dec 2013 #199

If you're ok with personal attacks, I guess that's your business Orrex Dec 2013 #204

I see. Well, we disagree. Va bene. CTyankee Dec 2013 #206

you keep repeating i make personal attacks. ONE. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #208

link to the personal attacks. i go after the issue. that simple. link to personal attack and insults seabeyond Dec 2013 #205

i am still seriously waiting for the personal attack and name calling. i take pride not going there. seabeyond Dec 2013 #221

i told one troll to fuck off who had been here a while and sent all of us vulgar pms. i have not seabeyond Dec 2013 #207

vulgar pms? How did you handle that? I would have contacted the admins. CTyankee Dec 2013 #213

i ignored it. but he came on a thread in hof and snarked/scorned at me, right after i read his pm. seabeyond Dec 2013 #217

Oh, christ, I'm sorry Sea. That's bad. but I'm glad Skinner got rid of him... CTyankee Dec 2013 #223

lol. that wont be one i agpologize for. what many do not know is i reached out to him many times seabeyond Dec 2013 #230

I hope you documented that in your communications with the admins. That's the only way to CTyankee Dec 2013 #233

no. i dont mess with that. i figure if administration has any interest, they can figure it out. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #235

Yes, they should. And if they don't, well it means trouble down the line. CTyankee Dec 2013 #238

No, it's the patriarchy in action Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #276

What makes you think you have a right to gossip about people? BainsBane Dec 2013 #417

If anything, the post they were replying to was gossipy... Violet_Crumble Dec 2013 #420

You mean in an OP posted to talk about others' behavior? NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #425

As long as they aren't putting the word guns in their posts kcr Dec 2013 #140

There is no conspiracy theory Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #212

Those that don't speak out today face the hedgeclippers tomorrow. politichew Dec 2013 #35

Really? You think women here on DU want to snip snip your balls off with hedge clippers? boston bean Dec 2013 #44

I don't understand why they are spending so much time leering at them otherwise. NoOneMan Dec 2013 #50

Who is leering at them? boston bean Dec 2013 #52

Oh, now, now, that would be a callout NoOneMan Dec 2013 #55

yeah right... boston bean Dec 2013 #60

So you're just protecting yourself from castration? Squinch Dec 2013 #82

Please post links. I would love to see your definition of 'picking fights'! I bet it is disagreeing' Logical Dec 2013 #56

Well this is entirely subjective Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #256

THEY STARTED IT!!! K.O. Stradivarius Dec 2013 #57

Bored I think ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #61

Yes... This is exactly the crap that is being pulled Ohio Joe Dec 2013 #72

They're especially fond of #1 here. kcr Dec 2013 #287

I was juror #6 BTW. Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #62

On my Op? trumad Dec 2013 #120

Yep. Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #132

I have a few alert stalkers out there who hit alert and see if it sticks. trumad Dec 2013 #134

it got alerted as "whining about DU" CreekDog Dec 2013 #156

Hi CreekDog.... NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #164

You aren't a GD host, the only matter to discuss is why you act like one CreekDog Dec 2013 #166

OMG you're onto me. NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #167

If you believe there is a host-wide conspiracy to lock/leave specific type of posts idwiyo Dec 2013 #288

Oh stop, you know I don't believe in anything like that CreekDog Dec 2013 #296

I'm not whining about DU. trumad Dec 2013 #173

I know you aren't. The one who alerted is the one who whines. CreekDog Dec 2013 #176

Both sides are culprits. n/t tammywammy Dec 2013 #63

You are absolutely correct. ConcernedCanuk Dec 2013 #79

Subsets of both sides, yep. WorseBeforeBetter Dec 2013 #104

Yes, exactly. n/t tammywammy Dec 2013 #105

The administrators allow it to continue. demmiblue Dec 2013 #65

Adding an 'ignore and block' feature would help, I think. Too many fucking stalkers. PeaceNikki Dec 2013 #74

Totally agree with you. nt City Lights Dec 2013 #111

It's much more complicated than that. These issues are multifaceted. stevenleser Dec 2013 #69

That happens when something stings. Iggo Dec 2013 #75

Really. There should be a DUzy thread just about these posts today. Squinch Dec 2013 #83

probably the same thing as the increase in women picking fights with guys loli phabay Dec 2013 #84

+1 darkangel218 Dec 2013 #88

Off the top of my head Kelvin Mace Dec 2013 #89

what you said. Matariki Dec 2013 #116

Just more of the manly Xmas spirit, I guess Warpy Dec 2013 #103

A lot of it began when some feminists here started threads that supported bans on pornography davidn3600 Dec 2013 #107

Actually that thread was started by The Straight Story BainsBane Dec 2013 #109

Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #137

Your post is a pile of rightwing pig vomit worthy of Rush Limbaugh. geek tragedy Dec 2013 #148

nope, a man started that. So you can apologize anytime now for posting BS. bettyellen Dec 2013 #179

i see you have not corrected your error that women started the post about rape porn. man starts it seabeyond Dec 2013 #345

Yes - and doing it with flamebait threads Matariki Dec 2013 #112

Feminiism has lost in the public arena Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #119

No. Feminist bashing is the new hippie punching. CTyankee Dec 2013 #127

The problem with feminism is not that it's out of date, but that's it no longer has a goal davidn3600 Dec 2013 #147

Goal: push back against rape culture and the patriarchy. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #150

yeah, when I think of the failing of society to address equal pay, first group I blame is feminists geek tragedy Dec 2013 #153

the problem is YOU aren't aware or interested in our goals, to the extent that you have convinced bettyellen Dec 2013 #177

And many women feel they are close to those goals or have already been accomplished davidn3600 Dec 2013 #187

wow, a bunch of anecdotal nonsense. Gosh thanks, I will decline the opportunity to bettyellen Dec 2013 #191

you ought to check out the young feminist of today. they are even more bad ass than 2nd wave. ahhh seabeyond Dec 2013 #215

Alright, you clearly don't understand the concept of the patriarchy then. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #226

and women are imprisoned during pregnancy to be better incubators. But "abortion is settled" bettyellen Dec 2013 #275

I am a millennial/gen x Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #260

That's actually been the case since all the factory jobs got outsourced. CFLDem Dec 2013 #272

oh, christ, stop with the condescending attitude already. It doesn't work any more. CTyankee Dec 2013 #182

Feminism isn't popular with the general populace Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #189

feminism has NEVER been popular with the general population. and LOOK at all we have accomplished. seabeyond Dec 2013 #228

Actually Feminism has been popular Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #229

you are wrong. go back and read 1920. no. feminism has never had popular support. and du is an seabeyond Dec 2013 #234

We are not talking about the 1920s Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #241

It takes all my energy to pick fights with the woman who lives here with me tularetom Dec 2013 #124

Spouse and I are old, too, altho we haven't been together as long as you have... CTyankee Dec 2013 #144

Didn't seem to be as much of a problem until we both retired and were together 24/7 tularetom Dec 2013 #183

well, that's us, minus the 40 acres... CTyankee Dec 2013 #186

Sounds like you've discovered the key to a good relationship in retirement tularetom Dec 2013 #192

You know, you can't ask your partner to always do what you want to do. CTyankee Dec 2013 #196

Sad indeed. It's the 2-minute hate or the apocalypse. No news to chew on, so bite each other... freshwest Dec 2013 #133

oh boy... AAO Dec 2013 #145

Only poor saps with no life lurking in their parents basement are like this. Blue_Adept Dec 2013 #149

ya..i agree madrchsod Dec 2013 #157

The Battle of the Sexes Rages On! cer7711 Dec 2013 #161

Stop it CFLDem Dec 2013 #172

and who is the bitches? trumad Dec 2013 #175

They're Equally Represented Across Both Genders . . . cer7711 Dec 2013 #243

so it is ok for you to call women bitches? seabeyond Dec 2013 #247

And the flamebait is laid CFLDem Dec 2013 #255

ha. you might want to address the person that actually choose to call women bitches, dontcha think? seabeyond Dec 2013 #261

No I'd rather call out the poster with the biased agenda. CFLDem Dec 2013 #262

one gender neutral, one sexist. and ya. i have an agenda. i am a feminist seabeyond Dec 2013 #268

Actually asshole is a sexist term CFLDem Dec 2013 #269

we all have assholes. we all have asshole behavior. it is gender neutral. that is about seabeyond Dec 2013 #270

It's only because I enjoy your company. CFLDem Dec 2013 #271

nah. i know who you are now. seabeyond Dec 2013 #281

Using those clairvoyant powers again. CFLDem Dec 2013 #283

consisten behavior from a previously tos'ed poster. following me around with your jabs. seabeyond Dec 2013 #284

Interesting theory. CFLDem Dec 2013 #285

i am done. seabeyond Dec 2013 #286

To be fair, he called the men 'assholes'. He's clearly an equal opportunity offender. Flatulo Dec 2013 #421

You used sexist language towards me and refused to stop. Should you be lecturing others? nt msanthrope Dec 2013 #423

And feminists are humanists and humanists are feminists. Is it not so? CTyankee Dec 2013 #181

If there is a war between the sexes, one need only look at the halls of power, redqueen Dec 2013 #225

"Humanist" is just the "I don't see race" of gender. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #231

Are you a kindergarden teacher? xulamaude Dec 2013 #240

No, No, & My Point Exactly cer7711 Dec 2013 #242

If you are going to use gendered terms why did you use "Assholes"? intaglio Dec 2013 #307

GD is just brimming with the holiday spirit these days. edbermac Dec 2013 #170

LOL! Perfect. cer7711 Dec 2013 #244

Considering the back and forth here on this thread, it strikes me closeupready Dec 2013 #184

Sure been an uptick in posts calling all men creepy pervs who are potential rapists. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #194

The bring problem is that if someone uses gender pronouns justiceischeap Dec 2013 #250

If that's what you mean, that's what you should say. Marr Dec 2013 #297

And that usually happens in these firestorm gender threads justiceischeap Dec 2013 #298

No, there has been an uptick in posts that call some men creeps intaglio Dec 2013 #309

I have theories, but vocalizing them would probably get me hidden, sad to say. Starry Messenger Dec 2013 #237

This is just a new RW ploy to soil the site. It's so easy to put the assholes on Ignore and valerief Dec 2013 #246

Where's your evidence? SpectorGrowl Dec 2013 #252

I was with you 'till the "greatest generation" dis. Skip Intro Dec 2013 #266

Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2013 #273

Wow...where did that come from? NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #415

Your thread certainly appears to be the impetus for a slew ... etherealtruth Dec 2013 #254

trumad. I am so happy you have changed your ways. It is really refreshing, though highly madinmaryland Dec 2013 #257

+1. I had him on ignore several years back; now, closeupready Dec 2013 #259

Did you ever post any links? Skip Intro Dec 2013 #264

+1 philly_bob Dec 2013 #282

Do you ever read. trumad Dec 2013 #292

From Spinal Tap YoungDemCA Dec 2013 #267

Thanks Trumad. senseandsensibility Dec 2013 #274

Nope just the ones that hate men... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #290

Oh horseshit.. trumad Dec 2013 #291

It's absolutely unbelievable that they still use the "man hater" canard to try to shut feminists up. redqueen Dec 2013 #294

What a pithy rejoinder... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #295

Like I said... trumad Dec 2013 #312

I bow to your superior linguistic ability... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #317

No one here hates men gollygee Dec 2013 #299

Right...and the usual radical feminists I have on ignore... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #302

People seem to read "men in general" gollygee Dec 2013 #310

i was just otld that saying "man haters" would get a hide, each and every time. waiting. seabeyond Dec 2013 #305

Are you scared of the word "woman"? intaglio Dec 2013 #311

Because I dislike men-hating radical feminists? truebrit71 Dec 2013 #318

Well I am ashamed to share the same nationality with Kevin Carroll intaglio Dec 2013 #319

What a load of old bollocks... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #320

But I do know that you like women who are "laydeez," intaglio Dec 2013 #323

Nope. Wrong. truebrit71 Dec 2013 #325

ya. i am exclusively woman. thank you for making that point. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #322

Happy St Eugenia's day Sea ... n/t intaglio Dec 2013 #324

Yeah, right, it's ALWAYS "the guys." 99Forever Dec 2013 #313

Boy, am I ever looking forward to January 8th! n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #321

I was just discussing this. Almost ten applegrove Dec 2013 #326

8 yrs of rules. no sexism. 2 years, no rules.... that would be the difference. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #346

Yeah, why have we allowed this to go on for so long? RC Dec 2013 #373

ONE post accusing most men are rapist. ONE. where is the respect for fellow duers? you are right, seabeyond Dec 2013 #403

I just read through All 327 replies and... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #328

"Congratulations for bringing Meta back, and good trolling." indeed. Merry Fucking Christmas All. nt Electric Monk Dec 2013 #333

Any examples? Links? NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #331

Always loved when folks ask for examples. trumad Dec 2013 #337

So, in other words... NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #338

So in other words... trumad Dec 2013 #340

No, just disagreeing with you. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #341

Which is your perfect right. trumad Dec 2013 #359

I guess we just see it differently. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #361

So we are supposed to believe anecdotal information from you. Don't you have another madinmaryland Dec 2013 #410

can't have a single topic on women's issues without a man angsting. Evoman Dec 2013 #334

Your are totally wrong Trumad Soundman Dec 2013 #335

Thanks for the respect---I appreciate it. trumad Dec 2013 #336

What I don't understand is that DU is supposedly a Left leaning web site with Liberal, empathic men. RC Dec 2013 #339

I don't get this gollygee Dec 2013 #343

Oh, if it were so black and white Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #344

a PSA from india was posted. the hysteria erupted. how is that any more black and white than it gets seabeyond Dec 2013 #347

It's more like 50 shades of grey Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #350

wrong. a PSA was put out. 130 rec. lots of people in the thread liking. not a group. not a few. seabeyond Dec 2013 #351

The ultimate cross that you bear Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #354

repetitive with the hollow. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #357

you skipped a step. though 130 rec the PSA, all kinds of people validate PSA, HOF and me particular seabeyond Dec 2013 #349

The ultimate cross that you bear Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #352

isnt it though seabeyond Dec 2013 #355

Correct... trumad Dec 2013 #360

Because the LGBT posts are generally demonstrably true. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #383

That isn't parallel gollygee Dec 2013 #391

+100 n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #381

Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #348

some chick... would that be a subthread of sexism of yours? where you got a hidden post. insulting seabeyond Dec 2013 #353

Wow! what a post... trumad Dec 2013 #362

but... we are the bad guys. addressing the issue time and again as we are personally attacked. seabeyond Dec 2013 #364

par for the course... trumad Dec 2013 #366

As one of the men who have started my share Bennyboy Dec 2013 #370

Awwww..... Sheldon Cooper Dec 2013 #377

"I started it to get a rise out of them" redqueen Dec 2013 #379

Wow, HUGH surprise.... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #382

And about porn..... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #387

Gee sorry, I guess it's cause I only see testimony and videos from former female porn stars crying redqueen Dec 2013 #388

A gay male porn star has no S$$ to gain by writing a book.... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #390

"only women are coerced into the sex trades?" xulamaude Dec 2013 #392

Wow, so exited porn stars who talk about having been raped are all liars trying to make more money? redqueen Dec 2013 #394

Again, you are trying to say something I never said... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #396

"Porn is abusive to many." in your own words. and when we say it? we are attacked, called liars, seabeyond Dec 2013 #400

I bet he doesn't even know about xulamaude Dec 2013 #389

I didn't know about that either. Such a "hard" job for those poor, poor men. redqueen Dec 2013 #395

Or the girls that volunteer for gang bangs as well.... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #405

"Porn is abusive to many." in your own words. seabeyond Dec 2013 #408

But not everyone.... Bennyboy Dec 2013 #413

"And to use such vulgar language to convey their point only proves their disdain for men." JTFrog Dec 2013 #385

you seem to ignore the many people in your OP that have nothing to do with us few women, that called seabeyond Dec 2013 #401

We're all equal here, thanks to anonymity marshall Dec 2013 #386

"some poor saps who have no life? Fucking sad sacks." Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #397

Don't know, but I've been attacked by women here recently TroglodyteScholar Dec 2013 #398

Some men are terrified by the thought of losing their privilege. nt left coaster Dec 2013 #404

end of discussion. suscintly, this is what it is all about. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #409

Please don't .. yuiyoshida Dec 2013 #412